would you accept or appologise for a mistake that you havent done??

Hi there magna86 During my abusive 10 year marriage it was easier to say that I was in the wrong and appologise as it seemed to make life a little easier at the time. I certainly don't do it anymore, no reason for me to!

I don't understand your question clearly. I can see that in two views. Hehe. I strongly believe that the relationship will break if we argue a lot. If someone is hurt because of me, I will try to make that person understand my situation. In my opinion what I did will be correct and the other person will think that its wrong. Both have not done any mistake actually. Opinion differs. In such cases if I feel that the relationship is more important for me, I don't mind asking sorry. In another way, I will not save others by accepting their mistakes. Even if its my close friend. They have to get the punishment for their mistakes.

Well I have to confess that sometimes I did, because for me, it is better not to confront my boss while his temper high. But yes a couple of days after his calmer I will give my argue... Only to avoid unnecessary trouble, no more and no less.