which relationship do you think most important?

@nabiha (50)
China
August 25, 2008 4:36am CST
which relation do u think most important in your life?? husband and wife?parents and childs?brothers and sisters?or friends before I alway thinks that the love betweent parents and childs is most importenat in my life. but after I marry,I find that husband and wife relation is most important.bcoz husband or wife is the one who will stay with you all your life until you die.I mean if you lucky enought can find the one who can stay with you whole life. what do you think?
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16 responses
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Hello Nabiha. It is true that husband and wife is most important because both of you will be leaving a legacy for your children...that of loyalty, trust, commitment and most of all love. It's true that you cannot change nor choose your parent or your child but you can choose and change your spouse...however, it is with your spouse that you create a future together, and that is most of all, the future of your children. Enjoy MyLot!
@nabiha (50)
• China
25 Aug 08
Thank you pinkytabor. I believe that love can overcome everything.people should serious about marriage,this is most beautiful love which without blood related,just with love,trust and be together. hope everyone find their true love.:)
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
All of them are important and worthy of keeping. But above all, I think the most important is the husband and wife relationship. Both of you promised to live through thick and thin, richer and poorer, etc. Also, they are the foundation in a family. They share responsibilities on how to build a successful family and children.
@nabiha (50)
• China
25 Aug 08
yes,husband and wife build up the family,they become parents,then show love to child.I think this is human's basic love that is husband and wife,so that the human society keep running thousands of years.
@shana123 (2095)
• India
25 Aug 08
Your absolutely right even im like you, untill i get married my importance is more for parents and after marriage its good for a women to be giving importance to her hubby as well as hubby to his wife which can only build a healthy relation as its going to be a long term relationship.. ofcourse after marriage our kids will also play a major role but then we gotta keep hubby as first this is what i learnt from my parents..
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@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
25 Aug 08
for me all the relationships are important. my relationship with every single person around me is important and unique in every way. i can also say i cannot compare ecah one because they different level.
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@rkrish (3003)
• India
25 Aug 08
I too believe on that by seeing my parents and that made me to enter in marriage life but now, dream has become nightmare. As my wife thinks her parents are always special though i am always showing love to her. The attraction not exits, I dont know why ? Is my thinking wrong ? I believe still spouse realtionship are best since i am waiting for the good day for my wife to turn and start loving me.
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@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
25 Aug 08
Wow. I hope that your wife realizes the importance of your relationship together soon. I think sometimes it is hard for people to make the adjustment from child, to wife. But I think the parents should be teaching her this as well. My parents did. When I first left their house to be with my husband, I missed them and would go over their house daily. They made me stop. Told me I need to focus my attention on my husband. That while they loved me and always will. I am an adult and need to behave as a wife. They helped me find that healthy balance.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
As we go on with our life we have encountered different types of relationship, when we were a child we experienced parents child relationship. As we grow older we have learned how to deal with friend type relationship and as we matured more we were able to experience a higher kind of relationship. We experienced being with the one we chose, some called this marriage others partnership. Then after sometime we gave birth and nourish the child parent relationship. In every aspect of our life, there is one relationship that matters most.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
25 Aug 08
as a Christian, i think the most important relationship for me is between me and my God... and then me and my family (no matter what, blood relationship is stil very important)... then me and my hubby... but after i am married, it changes... i try to put my hubby first and then my family... as the Bible also says, after we are married, we go out from our family to become one with our partner... but God is still number one for me... take care and have a nice day...
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
25 Aug 08
What is ultimately the most important is the ability to find a healthy balance between all of them! But once you have married and started a family I would have to say that your immediate responsibility and attention should mainly be focussed on that.
@nabiha (50)
• China
25 Aug 08
bcoz I find that these relationship are also around human.and how to balance these ,which one is important.I feel curious. specially when husband and my parents have quarrel,which side should I stand.
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
26 Aug 08
For me parents relation is most important so far. You must have become a mother by now. If during night if your child wets the bed, you sleep on the wet side and make your baby comfortable all the time. Now, which other relation or relative in your life can do the same. It is no one who will always be praying for you, loving and caring for you.
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
You can't say that there is one important relationship,as a matter of fact it's hard to choose what relationship is important because you need all of that and it molds you as what you are now.You can't live without your parents because without them you will not exist here on earth,without parents your husband/wife is not here too.child comes from their parents when their love blooms and the friends will come along your way,some maybe incidental and some are not.that's why we can't choose what's the important relationship because it helps us to molds until we grow and experience the things that we want to know.
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
Nothing beats the parent - child relationship for me. I think it is very important even though we got married or live separately from them. They are the ones who will stand by us in times of good times and bad times. Sometimes they express their love in different way that we felt they are being authoritative but come to think of it, they only want the best for us.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
25 Aug 08
The relation of your Heart with your Mind is the most important relationship, When these two r together you can make all the worldly relations to work!
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• Philippines
25 Aug 08
As a Christian, and as a daughter. The most important relationship is parents. It is stated in the ten commandments to honor your father and mother. Then, when I get married, the parents give me to my husband. Now its husband first before parents. Brothers and sisters will always there for me. But on the priorities right now. Its the husband, then my obligation to my parents. Then comes, brothers and sisters. I just got married, so no children yet.
@nabiha (50)
• China
25 Aug 08
you view nearly same with me,me also feel the same feeling like you do.I am also new marry.hehe.
@zhel21 (8)
• South Korea
26 Aug 08
Allof them are important for me.Even though were married or not.Not only they are always there to share their time to us.But to share their love.My parents,brother and sisters are important to me even though i'm married.It is true that the husband or wife is the one who will stay to our life until we die,so as a wife my relation to my husband is also important.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
25 Aug 08
Well obviously it varies. When you are an infant and a child, the most important relationships you have are with parents, or perhaps parent if you only have one. As you grow up, slowly your friends replace your parents as the most important, although they remain important. When you meet 'the one' and engage/marry, at that point THEY become the most important. After that, the cycle begins again when you have a child. I guess priorities are shared then, your spouse is most important when compared to your parents and friends, but your child is pretty important too when compared with your spouse lol. It is actually a daily balancing act to ensure that neither spouse nor kids feel they were somehow neglected because you have to divide or share your time, not to mention friends as well. I do feel that when you are grown up that parents do take a backseat, so it's important for parents to continue to also cherish and create and maintain their own friendships and AS a parent I need to always do this so I am not overly attached or involved with my kids when they don't need that interference any more. At that point you can give more time and attention to your faithful loving spouse, who after helping raise multiple kids past 18 probably deserves it!
@pythia7 (139)
• United States
25 Aug 08
The most important relationship of all is of course your relationship with God. As to your human relationships, that changes as you grow and develope. A child's most important relationship will be with his or her parents, As a married person my husband is my most important relationship, before my kids. We always tried to keep ourselves on the same page, so we would be loving and consistant with our kids.