Getting to see 1 grandson after 6 months

United States
August 25, 2008 9:38am CST
Finally thanks to my daughters ex b friend I am getting to see my oldest grandson after 6 months. I made a post a few weeks back on why I was not able to visit them ( becouse of my daughter ) But my grandson goes to his fathers In Fla every summer. I got a call from his dad over a month ago and he said I have a suprise for you hold on .. all of a sudden there I was talking to my grandson. We have been talking ever since he is 12 years old now :) His dad is bringing him back home, but before he drops him at his mom's house he is bringing him here to see me and my husband. he may even spend the nite as well :) . he does not feel its right that my daughter is keeping the 3 boys away from me, and since he has joint cousity he ( all his doing ) is going to bring him. I am so excited I am crying now with just the thought . I get to see him in 2 days :) .. he told me today that after I get to spend a day with my grandson he is going to call my daughter and tell her she can pick him up from my house . I feel bad for the way he is doing this but my love for tmy grandsons are too strong and that part of e does not care how she reacts at this point. You see her boys were all raised in my home, I was at 2 of the births of the boys and I miss them so .. I just need to vent and share my excitement of seeing at least one of my grandsons . Thanks for reading my post and letting me share with all of you . Hugs me
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3 responses
• United States
25 Aug 08
I am very happy for you. I hope that your daughter handles everything well! I hope that it all goes very smoothly! I know that you must have been longing to see the little guys for a while... One of the things that I have been hoping for is grandchildren. I hope and Pray that I will neve have to go through any of this!
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• United States
26 Aug 08
I just got off the phone with his dad .. she drilled my grandson and she knows I am going to be seeing him .. she threatened to call the police and get him for kidnapping.. gezzzzzz they do have joint cousity .. I can't believe this is the same girl I raised
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Thanks for posty .. Oh don't be sorry I know it's my daughter too .. when he gets here I am going to talk to his dad .. about me going to court to get visiting rights .. I just need info from him for the courts since they have joint cousity I need his support as far as the coirt system goes... they should be walking threw my door any moment now .. Hugs me ps.. thank you so much for the support sweetie :)
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• United States
26 Aug 08
That is WILD. I am sure that she can't get him for kidnapping. Sounds weird though. Sorry to say, I know it is your daughter.. These kids, sometimes they just break you heart! I hope it all works out for you, and you have a nice visit!
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@lou1982 (122)
27 Aug 08
that is horrible i have two children and would never stop any grandparents from seeing them i think a fall out is between you i hate it when the children get dragged into it just to hurt the other
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• United States
28 Aug 08
Thanks for posting Lou .. the children has nothing to do with the parents.. and I would never make my grandchildren make such choices.. I am sure there mother is brainwashing them .. but they know better I am sure
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
25 Aug 08
That is great that your daughters ex has decided to do that for you. I am sure you miss them like crazy especially since you had a hand in raising them up until recently. It is a shame you only get to see one of them though.
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• United States
26 Aug 08
thanks .. :) he's on his way now ...I would love to see all 3 of them but at this point I'll take what I can get .. I am so excited to see him .. his dad has been wonderful and we are going to talk about me going to court and he will back me up to see him.. once and if the courts allow me to have visation then the middle one will start to complain he wants to come .. the baby he just turned a year old he more then likly does not know who I am anymore..
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