How do you treat your books?

United States
August 26, 2008 6:33pm CST
When you read, whether it be a borrowed book, used book or a new book; do you use a bookmark to mark your place? Fold the page at the corner of the page that you are reading? (gasp!) Or leave the book open like a tent (yikes!)to keep your place? I always use a bookmark. I think, and this is just ME; if a book is borrowed that you should take extra care not to bend, fold or crease pages of a book so that the lender gets it back the same way it was loaned. So, how do YOU mark your spot in a book that you are reading? hm?
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@Essie119 (673)
• Canada
26 Aug 08
Regardless of whose book it is, I would never even consider folding down the corner of the page. I use bookmarks, although they aren't always technically bookmarks. I use receipts, coupons, envelopes or whatever else I lay my lands on when I need to stop reading. I really hate lending out my books to some people because you know that they don't take good care of them. I have one friend thought that doesn't even have to use a bookmark because she reads so fast that she always finishes a book in one sitting.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I hate lending out books also because I have so many missing from non returns. We have moved, they have moved and I never see the book again. So now it is something that I rarely do unless it is my Mom or Brother.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Aug 08
i really care my books..and i used book markers on parts that i stopped..i dont specifically cover them i just put my books in a shelves where i dusted from time to time..
• United States
27 Aug 08
I am the same. I try to take care of all of my books. I have many bookcases filled. Once a week I run the vacuum brush attachment over the tops to remove the dust that is settled there. Thanks for responding :)
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Books are an extremely important part of my life, and I love them. I never go anywhere without at least one, and I read at every possible moment. I have literally thousands of books and, even though I have a large house, I'm really getting cluttered. I don't think used books fetch much money, so I'm not sure what to do with them. I would never dog-ear a page. If, for some reason, I can't find my bookmark, a paper clip will do very temporarily. I'm crazy about the bookmarks I've been using for the past several years. They're called Book Bungees, and they are great! They hold the place, and they protect the book at the same time. When people see them, they ask where I got them, and I often give them the one I'm using and revert to a paper clip until I get home to get another Bungee.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I always travel with a book, also. I would be interested in seeing a Bungee for the books. Would you happen to have an image that you can post so that we might see what they look like? Thanks for responding.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Thank you so much for the information. No, I shouldn't have a problem finding the site. Now that you have explained what a Bungee looks like, I think that I have seen those before. It has been a long time though. They would be so much better for traveling than a bookmark as they wouldn't fall out of the book. Thank YOU!
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I have to admit, I'm a dinosaur, and I don't know how to do that. It's very much like an elastic hair band, with a plastic stick attached, The stick part (looks more like a doctor's tongue depressor) goes between the pages, and the elastic part wraps around the book. They're great! I get them through the Levenger's catalog. I think the full name is Levenger's tools for readers, and they're located in Boca Raton, Florida. I spend much too much with them, but their stuff is wonderful and the quality is excellent. They dohave a website, too. Let me know if you have any trouble finding Levenger's and I'll get out my last bill and look up the correct address or URL.
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@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
hmm when it is sidney sheldon i sledom use book marks coz i have the urgency to finish it since it is very compeling and a book that you cant let go once you start flipping it.. folding pages is a big NONONO for me and if someones borrows my book i tell them that is a rule for them to follow...
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Sidney Sheldon is a good author :) Yep, folding pages is a huge NO-NO for me, also. It just ruins the book.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
26 Aug 08
Book is my companion and I love my books.Whether borrowed or my own I always make sure that I am careful.I used bookmarks and I hate to fold.I never tear pages which some people used to do while in college from the library.This is so bad thing.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I am the same. I love my books and wish to keep all of my books in the best of shape, even if I didn't like the story. I still wish to preserve the book as much as possible because they are fragile.
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• United States
26 Aug 08
Oh, I can't STAND dog-eared pages! Makes me crazy. I don't use a bookmark, though - I have a REALLY good memory, so I just remember where I was and start up again. The only time I "tent" a book is if I only expect to be setting it down for short period of time. Tenting doesn't bother me as much as dog-ears anyway.
• United States
27 Aug 08
Wow! Do you realize that you are the ONLY person that I have ever heard say that they "remember" what page they were on? I am impressed! I hate dog-eared pages, also. It just ruins the pages :(
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• Singapore
27 Aug 08
Hello my friend, I am an avid reader and I treat all my books good. And by my books, it pretty much means any book in my possession, be it borrowed or bought. I always use a bookmark - a postcard or another alternative and will never force dog ears on a page (not anymore... ever since I knew better... the last time I did that was when I was a little boy who didn't know better). In fact, when I see dog ears, I would try to right the creases if possible. I try to at least maintain the condition of the books where possible.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
"In fact, when I see dog ears, I would try to right the creases if possible." As do I. Books are one of the few possessions I own that mean most to me. It is always good to see you, LWWizard :) Thanks!
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@madasp (563)
• United States
27 Aug 08
LOL I admit it, I leave my books open like a tent. I read alot so I usually stock up on books from yard sales and second hand stores so the books are usually pretty beat up when I get them anyway. If I do buy new books that I care about and plan to keep when I'm done reading them I take better care of them.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Well, at least you admit it!!! lol We have an annual Woman's Axillary Book Sale, and I have to say some of the books look a little beaten up there, also. Sometimes they only cost a quarter, but yes, I can see what you are saying about the old books. Thank you for sharing, madasp :)
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@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
27 Aug 08
You are really a books lover,you must read more books,from your words you have appeared love to books,although there are more readers,it's very less like you,if everyone who read book can do it like you,how fine it is!
• United States
27 Aug 08
Yes, I DO love books and I love to read! What a wonderful thing and a great way to relax and escape, yes? Thanks for responding!
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@mlh8087 (368)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I was taught by a librarian not to ever fold or crease the pages for a bookmark. This damages the book. It makes the lifespan of the book shorter and as any reader knows some books are worth going back to because they were such an enjoyable read. I use a piece of paper as a bookmark. Sometimes I just remember the page number if I don't have any loose paper running around.
• United States
27 Aug 08
I agree 100 percent! It most certainly does shorten the lifespan of a book to crease the page. I have read many books over and over. I remember one book in particular that was given to me, it was a wonderful book, when I got to the last page..it was missing! That was terrible, so, ended up going to the library, finding the book and reading the last page!
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@mlh8087 (368)
• United States
27 Aug 08
You know what else I don't like: It's when people break the spine in a book; espcially paperback books. You're merrily reading along when all the pages fall out of the book. You try getting them all together in the right order and whalla! a few pages are missing. I've been known to go so far as buy another book just so I can get those missing pages.
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@mlh8087 (368)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I just remembered, another thing I don't like is when people mark up the pages of a book. They let their children take markers to them or people think they are a better writer than the author and they edit the book. Those things just drive me nuts!
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• China
27 Aug 08
Acturally, some books in these days often have a cover which extends a litte loger then the width of the book. The extended part of the cover is fold at the first page before you buy the book. When you want to take a break after reading several pages, you can fold the extended part at the page where you stoped. However, as to the books without extended covers, I also use the a bookmark for I am used to keep the book clean and neat. Sometimes I do not like to lend my books to others, as not many persons have the same habit with me.
• United States
27 Aug 08
I hadn't seen the extended cover as of yet, but it is a novel idea. Hopefully more publishers will adopt this method. Thanks so much for your input and welcome to MyLot!
27 Aug 08
i haven't use a bookmark,always open the book in the same position of which page i will reading. Maybe it's a bad habit.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Hi chaoyanlifei and welcome to MyLot! It's never too late to change!!! lol As long as it isn't harming the book and yes, we all have our own way of doing things. Thanks for responding!
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@Margarit (3676)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
I do collect books in any kind. I have book with box so it is always neat and clean. I put it on my big box so that no body sees it because for me my book is a treasure. But sometimes cannot be avoided when someone knows that i have book they like . i dont want to be selflsh so i let them borrow but sad to say 'cause usually they do not take care and worst they dont return. Im a bet disappointed.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I also have a nice collection and I do hate to lend books. One of my oldest friends asked me if she could start borrowing a few of my books and I just was honest and told her that I would rather not lend out my books because too many have not been returned. :(
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I always use a bookmark. I LOVE books and don't want to ruin them!
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• United States
27 Aug 08
ME too! Thanks for responding and welcome to MyLot, greenlily!!!
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
27 Aug 08
well. for me, i am really really neat with books and i don't like it to be folded or crumpled... so i will definitely use a bookmark or try to remember which page i am last on reading... i will never fold the paper in my book as i don't like to see crumpled paper... take care and have a nice day...
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I use a bookmark also. When my bookmark falls out of the book, I normally have to spend awhile searching for my place. I normally read in bed at night and would never be able to remember where I left off since I normally fall asleep reading! Thanks for responding!
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@naka75 (795)
• Singapore
27 Aug 08
If a bookmark is available, I would use it. But usually I remember where I left of and pick up from there when I get to the book again. For borrowed books, I will take extra care not to fold the pages or damage the cover. I think the libraries has a way of tracking the damages caused by the borrower and ask for fines if necessary.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
If the library doesn't have a way to check, then I think maybe they should. I know when a book was returned when I was a child; I remember at times the librarian flipping through the returned book to check it. Thanks for responding!
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@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
27 Aug 08
most of the time i use book marks,,,but sometimes i fold it..guilty as charged..but when i only borrowed the book..i take extra care...
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I use bookmarks, also. Oh no! not a folder!..lol Your response is deeply appreciated :)
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 08
Yup, I treat my books very well - I would use something to mark the page; not necessarily a bookmark. It could be a piece of paper, post-it note or tag, business card, tissue, anything on hand. But I would never, never fold the page (that's almost like defacing the book to me!)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Right, and by creasing or "tenting" (which destroys the spine) you ruin the book for future generations. I have put a lot of money into buying the books that I want and I wouldn't deface or abuse any of my other possessions, so why a book? I have witnessed some really abusive book readers in my day! and it makes me want to grrr...lol Thanks for responding!
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@gabbana (1815)
• China
27 Aug 08
i use a bookmark to, and my bookmarks are mostly from the clothing tag cause they are beautiful patterned. but in most cases i borrow books, and i do make marks on it in pencil and erase them before i return. and i do erase the old pencil marks on the borrowed books made by other careless people.
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• United States
27 Aug 08
Clothing tags are a good idea. I had not even thought of that. Thank you so much for that great idea and thanks for responding!
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@Meera89 (11)
27 Aug 08
well..i dont usually borrow...this doesnt include course books... watevr,,,i treat my boooks with reat care...u can never find donkey ears in my books..if for my boook,,i take care..i am sure that i will do justice with watever books i have
• United States
27 Aug 08
Yes, I am the same. I try to take the best of care of ANY book. Thanks for responding and welcome to MyLot!
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