how long do you think is long enough to move in

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
August 28, 2008 5:12pm CST
when you are with someone and you know that you love them and you know that you want to be with them how long do you think is long enough before you move in, i mean i think that you should date them for awhile and spend the night with them some and then maybe spend the weekend or something with them and see what it is like to live with them and see if you can live with them and how things change once you two are with each other all of the time, at least i think thats what i am going to do before i move in with somenoe, so i was just wondering about all of you how long do you think is long enough before you move in...i want to thank you all for taking the time out of your day to come and read my discussion and i hope that you all reply as well, i hope that you all have had a great day so far and your evening turns out the same way, thanks again for taking the time!
3 responses
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
29 Aug 08
I was having my girlfriend practically living with me at home. After 1year of relationship she decided by herself to move in.. I thought that it would be nice but after a wile she became very difficult and noisy.. bothersome.. I ask her to move out again because I was not ready for something like that.. I love her and all but when it becomes to live together I have to step aside for now ..
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
It really depend on me it took me time to move in with her,it took me 8 months to decide. It's not easy to be just going in with out having the processed of knowing her and knowing me. You just go to that extent when you think that your compatible,feeling you can be you,you can understand each other to well, and accepting everything about her and same with her she could accept me for what I am, when I think I can carry the responsibility and obligations that we will carry being together,and being sure that I really love her very much that I wanna spend my life with her befor I move in with her. Then just making a mistake that were already their and that's the time you realized you can't both handle. So I won't rush her or me to live in that abrupt decision. Anyway if it's really us it's us. Have a nice day!
• United States
29 Aug 08
hmm at least a few months. get to know the person first and sepend time with them. and have some sleepover. me and my husband moved in together after 5 months. i think that was a good time for us.