what would make you end a relationship...

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 28, 2008 7:59pm CST
if you were in the early stages of a relationship and you really liked that person and could see yourself falling for them for a long time and you thought that they were a good person and really cared about you, and all of a sudden you found out something about them, like they have a criminal background, they have done something in the past that you really don't like or just something like that in general, do you think that you would end the relationship, or what do you think that you would have to find out to end that relationship...i want to thank you all for taking the time out of your day to come and read my discussion and i hope that you all reply as well, i hope that you all have had a great day so far and your evening turns out the same way, thanks again for taking the time!
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Well if she is open to me since the start and like her I'll still go on,and pursue her. Now if I am in the relationship and she was honest telling me well I will still her her for what she is. Love is accepting everything, Pass is pass! The only thing that matters now is today and the future. If it was really meant for me. The only thing that will end up a relationship is when you don't see changes. When you feel emptiness even that partner of yours is there.Whenb you are taken for granted. And when everything is wrong! Cause sometimes were just blinded with our emotions and feelings. That we don't know what is right or wrong that only you who is in love.That I hated most and really would end up the relationship. When I feel that she is just forcing herself to love me awwwwwwwwwwwwww that hurts,even though I love her I wont insist myself and will just gonna make things hard for her, that she wanted a better man, or I was not the man for her maybe that is why he/she cheats or telling a lie.Not because your setting someone free is you don't love her. Have a nice day!
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@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
29 Aug 08
i understand what you are saying and if i loved the girl enough i think i would try and stick by her as long as no more lying, thanks for taking the time to reply to my discussion!
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
29 Aug 08
Dear friend, The more faithfull to the relation it would be well and good and when they began to cheat and become unfaithful to the relationship and tend to put traps for other negative intentions I hope it would be better to not to get into these traps. Hence it would be an end to a relationship. As long as there is no sincere love and trust I hope it would be end.
@Essie119 (673)
• Canada
29 Aug 08
I guess it would depend on what the crime was and if I thought that they had changed. If it was "white-collar" crime I could probably live with it, but if they had done something to harm a person or animal, I would probably have second thoughts. At the beginning of a relationship it is easier to break things off since there aren't as many deep emotions involved.