Birds of the same feather flock together...
By iskayz
@iskayz (5420)
Philippines
August 29, 2008 2:20am CST
Hi everyone!
We choose our set of friends because usually we find things that are the same with them. Like having the same hobbies, same likes and dislikes and even having the same behaviour and attitudes. Friends enjoy each other’s company because of those common things they share and some friends will really stick together to the end. Just like birds of the same feathers that flock together.
There is also a saying “tell me who your friends are and I will tell who you are”. Is this saying very true to you and with your circle of friends? Others have the idea that friends are usually alike in all ways thus if your friends are bad then you are bad too. Of course that is not all so true. We wouldn’t choose someone to be our friend if we knew that they are bad in the first place right?
But if you happen to have a friend and found out later that your friend has been doing bad things, would you stop him/her from being bad or just let them be because you’re friends and you wouldn’t want to interfere with their own lives too. Would you stick with him/her to the end and disregard if he’s/she’s being bad or choose to end the friendship?
Please do share fellow lotters.
We choose our set of friends because usually we find things that are the same with them. Like having the same hobbies, same likes and dislikes and even having the same behaviour and attitudes. Friends enjoy each other’s company because of those common things they share and some friends will really stick together to the end. Just like birds of the same feathers that flock together.
There is also a saying “tell me who your friends are and I will tell who you are”. Is this saying very true to you and with your circle of friends? Others have the idea that friends are usually alike in all ways thus if your friends are bad then you are bad too. Of course that is not all so true. We wouldn’t choose someone to be our friend if we knew that they are bad in the first place right?
But if you happen to have a friend and found out later that your friend has been doing bad things, would you stop him/her from being bad or just let them be because you’re friends and you wouldn’t want to interfere with their own lives too. Would you stick with him/her to the end and disregard if he’s/she’s being bad or choose to end the friendship?
Please do share fellow lotters.2 responses
@swatigoel9 (1)
• India
29 Aug 08
yes this is true..but with some extent.many of time it happens to us that when we make some one our friend we like his or her attributes and activities.after a little long time we come to know about other outer and inner qualities of the person and make a match with our's.and it is the satisfaction of fulfilling our want with them and we enjoy each other's company and stick together .just like birds of the same feather that flick together.
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@dropofrain (1167)
• India
29 Aug 08
I will definately try and help my friend to get out of all the bad habbits and start coming back on the right track. Incase this does not happen then I might maintain some distance from my friend. In case its a very good friend I would let his family members or some one else who is a near and dear one. Its always better to help people and especially if its your friend!!!
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