do you believe in this concept that best friends can become true lovers

India
August 29, 2008 1:49pm CST
hi friends. i am in love with a girl now, actually we were very thick friends for the past four years. at later stage, we slowly missed each oher deeply and our friendship developed into love. but some people say that true friends shoul not become lovers. whats your opinion. do you agree with me or else ..........
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• India
29 Aug 08
Dear Vinesh I say only one like for you and am sure that's the best answer for this. Best/true friend can be (101%) a good wife but a wife can not be(90%) a best friend.
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@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
29 Aug 08
it's a very difficult question.. actually you must not mix friendship with love, because it could become a disaster. but if you only are thinking to have s3x then you should search another girl and preserve your friendship. that's what I think
• Canada
29 Aug 08
YES!!XD Best Friends can become TRUE lovers in the near future! :D But Most of the time one of the friend's think its going to change and mess things up for others or there selves.
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@vijbas (369)
• India
3 Sep 08
i agree with u vinesh. best friends can become lovers. no one become lovers directly and i dont like the concept of love at first sight. when u are good friends u tend to know to more abt ur friend and makes him ur favourite and gradually u start to love him/her. this is natural. u dont need to worry abt it. u keep loving....
@shana123 (2096)
• India
3 Sep 08
You people wanted to make your friendship so you people started to live your life together this is another sorta love there is nothing wrong or dangerous with it unless you people maintain your friendship level .. i have seen people like you first being friends and lovers and also some people vice versa first lovers then friends after break up lol.. its all upto one's willingness if it really ok with them then they can proceed with love.. there is no law as like people who are thick friends shouldn't fall in love anything like that.. so all the best for your love life..
@chinniR (661)
• India
2 Sep 08
Its always possible that thick friends can turn lovers. I dont think anything is wrong in this. infact the two get to know about each other more than anyone and the relationship will also be strong.
@bobet17 (158)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Yes thats Posible,a bestfriend who know you better,who always there to help,maybe they have to open thier eyes to see the truth that they already fallen in love by each other,a friend is not hard to be love because you dont have to know her/him more,many couples are like that,they dont expect that they found a love in the friendship.
• China
30 Aug 08
ican not agree with your friend's idea.tell you the truth,one of my friend is like you,his wife is his old friend some years ago.they love each other .and ,i can see they have a great life.believe yourself,and do what you want to do,do not worry about others'ideas,because you must know,your life is you own.no one can help you.come on.you can.good luck to you.
@sharay (2775)
• India
30 Aug 08
True friends can never become lovers, i am really surprised with this statement, why not...when you both know each other so well and moreover, like one another which is the very basic thing needed for a good marital relation, you must go ahead and start your life with her...dont just think about anything the others say...just blindly marry her, you wont feel for it for sure