Is It Considered Cheating To Dream Of An Actor???:-0

Dr. Who & Rose - These are the two characters from the BBC Dr. Who tv series
Turkey
August 29, 2008 1:50pm CST
LOL...Last night I had a dream and in it I was traveling with David Tennant but with him as the Dr. in Dr. Who of course LOL...I was in the position that Rose was in in the series. We were in love and traveling to diffrent places and having many adventures....Sad, I know but hey, I can't control what I dream!!! Would you all consider this cheating??? My husband said that it's not because it's just a dream but I feel awful about it because I really do love my hubby and he's my best friend!!! I think sometimes I just miss the newness that comes with a new relationship. You know, after you have been married for a while you tend to just settle into these roles and you forget about just being in love. I wish my husband were more spontaneous too and more romantic. It would be nice to get away more as well. You know, away from our normal everyday routines that we all have a tendancy to fall into at times but that takes money and time, both of which we do not have much of....Bummer.... I have always daydreamed of adventure and romance growing up and I think that my dream may just be the result of that and the fact that it seems to be missing from my life right now... What do you all think about this and have you ever had dreams such as this? LOL...
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@kymommy72 (588)
• United States
1 Oct 08
No, it's not cheating. First off, you can't help what you dream. It's not your fault you had a dream about a guy and you were in love with him in it. I know dreams are suppose to be part of our subconcious, but I also beleive that what we dream sometimes has different meanings than whats at the surface. Like knowing your hubby is really into Dr. Who, maybe it was really him you were dreaming about, but in your dream it was the Dr. Who guy. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with a fantasy every now and again. Lord knows I got my fav TV and movie hotties that I drool over. The problem comes only when you try to make the fantasies a reality :)
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• Turkey
1 Oct 08
I definitely agree with you, especially about the last part. That's when it starts to go wrong, when we mix up fantasy with reality. Thanks cuz!!!
@wendhieRN (754)
• United States
31 Aug 08
i don't think it'll be considered as cheating when we dream of an actor or someone we find cute. i myself have had dreamed of that and even told my husband about it. hahaha. well, to his understanding, better have a dream with an actor than with my exs.
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• Turkey
31 Aug 08
LOL...Hey, I'll go with that, it sounds good to me, thanks!!!
• United States
29 Aug 08
no it's not cheating, he's right it's just a dream. the mind is a funny thing, and dreams aren't always what they seem, they always have a hidden meaning. you probably pictured the actor because that's how you remember the show, but really you want to travel like that with your husband. go to dreammoods.com for more detail. you have to put main objects for the search to work. like travel, whatever you were wearing maybe dress, etc...
• Turkey
30 Aug 08
cool...I will have to check that link out, thanks!!!