Would you rather get "played" by your partner?
By shamzy18
@shamzy18 (2315)
August 31, 2008 5:34pm CST
well there was this girl and she had a boyfriend and went through a lot. like got cheated and everything. And now when he is faithful to her, he is like a "dog" to her. But she complains even now!! like she would rather have him playing her and she was more attracted to him when he was playing her!! but at the time obviously she hated it!! and had fights with loads of girls.
But one thing she stated which was wierd. she said something like i want a player i dont want a boy i want a man!!
basically what she meant there was if you are a player then you are a man.
i disagree i dont think being a player makes you into a man!!
but she is just wierd, lol
whats your opinion on this? would you have the same point of view as her?
2 responses
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
[i]Hi shamzy18.
I guess nobody wants to have a partner who is a player.NObody wants a partner who is too submissive as well.It would be best if we have someone who is somewhere in between.I once had a boyfriend who is so submissive and he is like a dog literally.If you ask him to do something he will do it for you..I don't know if it's how he showed his love but I find it boring.Now I have a boyfriend who is really nice.A give and take relationship would be best.He could be a bad boy but never a player,he can smother me but not too submissive and I am happy this way.[/i]
I guess nobody wants to have a partner who is a player.NObody wants a partner who is too submissive as well.It would be best if we have someone who is somewhere in between.I once had a boyfriend who is so submissive and he is like a dog literally.If you ask him to do something he will do it for you..I don't know if it's how he showed his love but I find it boring.Now I have a boyfriend who is really nice.A give and take relationship would be best.He could be a bad boy but never a player,he can smother me but not too submissive and I am happy this way.[/i]2 people like this
@shamzy18 (2315)
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7 Sep 08
yep you aint satisfied with either lol. so yeah in between is the best. LOL yeah you know though i havent had a guy who was a proper dog so thats why i wouldnt mind it. But i know if i did have one i would get fed up of it haha. you dont want someone who gives it to you on the plate lol.
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
The girl you are talking about has, I think, a bit of a psychological problem in some sense. It's not something normal in societies nowadays. She seems deviant to me and I can't accept it if someone cheated on me. That girl really needs good friends around and advices.
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