HOw would you feel if your best friend

United States
August 31, 2008 10:03pm CST
who has been dating your brother on and off ends up pregnant while your brother was out of the state (for four months) and during those months you really did not see her much because she stopped calling and then you find out from an anonymous deal and because it is evident that she is pregnant. She did not tell you and when you asked she tried to deny it and still tried to lie about the situation even though it is obvious she is because of all the body changes... well she finally admitted to it being true and said she was 4 months and it was going to be a boy... well she still has not told my brother now that he is back and to me I just felt as though she could not be honest with me and that hurt. It is not my place to be the one to tell my brother what is going on because it is her life the only problem is that ever since my brother has got back all she has done is spend the night and my brothers has given her many expensive gifts and she still has not told him the truth. It really bothers me how a person is not capable of admitting their mistakes, originally whenever she decided to admit to the truth i was very happy for her because a baby is a blessing no matter and many other positive things but that just was not enough, she needs to be honest there is no way one can hide a pregnancy especially for how far along she is. Please feel free to comment.
1 response
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
1 Sep 08
i think that it would really hurt me too because thats suppose to be one of your best friends and it has to do with your brother and that makes it twice as bad, so i think that i would just ask her about it and sit down and try and see why she did what she did, it could be because your his sister and it would be awkard or she thought it would be, and even if she doesn't want to admit it...i think that could be a reason but then again i could be wrong, so i hope that it all works out for you, good luck with it!
• United States
1 Sep 08
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to respond to my discussion and for giving me your insight on the whole situation. I see what you mean it could be a factor, I do not not know what is like to be in that certain situation but I do know what it is like to go through a pregnancy. Well there may be many thoughts going through her head but first thing is first for how embarrassing a situation may be you need to face your mistakes with your head up high instead of trying to avoid it.