are you annoyed when people says mean things that you know is not true?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
September 1, 2008 1:32am CST
people say some mean things about us we know what they are saying is untrue everyone know you must have 2 witness if they accuse you of anything are say anything mean about you. how do this make you feel when people say mean things you know is not true?
3 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
1 Sep 08
hi ann,
this is human nature .. i have come to terms with this ... there are 2 types of rumours (i) good & (ii) Bad ...
people are so happy when good rumours ar spread around .. if the rumour says you are beautiful or very intelligent .. even though it is untru we will accept it
but when it comes to the bad rumours .. we tend to be very deffensive and get upset and angry
It is the same with me ..
it hurts bad when they say things about you which is untrue ... the best option for you is not to fight them but make the other people realise that the statement is not true about you by acting as you are
Depend on the subject manner .. if the rumours has been about your intelligence .. then please bring up intellingent subject for discussion when you are with this person and witnessed by others .. and shame him in front of others
cheers




