whats a good age to stop worrying about your kids/

for chinese parents, worrying about their kids is a lifelong issue , even they become parents of their own kids.

you want to let go but i think being a parent we continue to worry even after they are grown.

The answer to this my friend as long as you have children it does not matter what age they are you shall worry about them. When they are adults they talk to you more on a friends level and I myself believe they tell us way more than we need to know. Which in turn causes worry. You have to learn to put your worries for your adult children in the back of your mind and not think about it constant. If you have that I just know something is wrong feeling give them a call if they need your help they will let you know. I wish you lots of luck !

You don't stop worrying about your children even when they are already grownups. You can only hope and pray that their choices in life will always be the right ones and if once in a while they fail, parents are always there to lend a hand or just to listen and give advice.