Is broken heated person easy to steal?
By alecz23
@alecz23 (486)
Philippines
September 2, 2008 1:30pm CST
Is this true?
does anyone experienced this before?
for me is YES, it happen to me once when she open up everything to me and I comforted her but then she got emotionally attached to me, but unfortunately I didn't like her but shes so nice to me...
If you gonna ask me my answer is yes but I felt bad in the end because I only added up to her emotional problem and I felt guilt somehow? What do you think?
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@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
that girl expected too much.. that was her fault
but to answer your question.. YES, it is very easy to make a broken hearted person fall in love. Because, they need care and attention and someone who will comfort them. If you are the person beside them, there is a big chance of transference. Meaning, her feelings to her past lover are being transferred to you. THen you become the bouncer. THat's why everytime I have a broken relationship, i dont rush things.. I give it time to heal in order to be fair to myself and to be fair to my next lover
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@alecz23 (486)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
wow that's a really nice answer... that's really a big problem, I kinda like her but I don't wanna grab the opportunity cause I know its easy to get a broken hearted person and I just don't know if I'll going to a rebound guy or not, I just wanna ask a girls opinion cause I don't know what a girl feels in times like that hehehe...but as you said I'll give her time and that's what I did, time do heal all wounds and time to reach acceptance, I know shes on the stage of depression...
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@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
2 Sep 08
I wouldn't date a "broken hearted" person because odds are, they're rebounding. They're still hurting from the lost relationship and may not be ready to commit to a new relationship. They might just be looking for affirmation that they're worthy or wanted. But until someone is fully healed and ready to move on, I wouldn't get involved on more than a friendship level.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Yes, this has happened to me, also. You must be careful when comforting anyone who has had their heart broken because they usually feel a big need to fill that hole left in their heart with the first thing they can. If you are there to comfort them, they will want to see that comfort as the "love" they lost.
You must let them know that you will be there for them, but only as a friend, and that nothing more can come of it, at least not right then. Her heart must heal on it's own before she can really begin a new relationship and that takes time. A truly broken heart usually takes about 6 months to heal before that person is ready to begin a new relationship with someone else.
If this happens to you again, you should tell them these things right off the bat so that there won't be any misunderstandings.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
2 Sep 08
ah the joys of the rebound.. yeah a broken hearted person is easy to "steal" but they arent taken usually so its not really like you are stealing them from some one.. they do usually attach and form temporary feelings for whomever is the first one to be nice to them so you have to watch it and be careful.. just remind her that she probably is just feeling those feelings for you because she is scared and lonely.. etc..
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@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Well for some it could be but not to all. For me I think that a person who is broken hearted easily falls in love with someone because he or she thinks that that person cares for him or her more than a previous lover. For me this thought makes them think that they are in love with you. Just be careful in dealing with them and don't hurt their feelings. 



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@pinkytabor (818)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
You know what they say something about a broken heart? If she falls in love soon to another, it's broken pride, not broken heart.
That girl i think already has the hots for you even before she broke her heart. Normally, what i know is that a girl opens up everything to her girlfriends once they are emotionally devastated because. If she opens up to a guy, i think she's looking for a fall back, a rebound. Personally, i don't believe that you "stole" her. She put up herself on sale. And how did she get so attached with you? Perhaps somewhere in the back of your mind, you are also interested with her, but just not so seriously? That's why the guilt feelings?
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
3 Sep 08
I am sure it would be easy enough. When we are hurting, we are vulnerable. When someone who is warm and caring, willing to listen and hold our hand, or give us a shoulder to cry on, comes along, it is very easy to think that we may have fallen in love with that person.
It has not happened to me, but I have known people who become unduly attached to someone in a case like this.







