how do you deal with a JEALOUS guy???

Philippines
September 2, 2008 8:21pm CST
i dont know whats makes him one but it seems like my partner is very jealous of everything...i thought, he is the only one who get jealous that way but i learned that a lot of guys i know are just like him to their wives or girlfriends..it was flattering at first but it gets irritating sometimes...how do you handle you jealous lover???
2 responses
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Well, my ex-boyfriend was very jealous of everything like my friends, my family, teachers, and even strangers.. I really don't know why.. If ever he saw me talking with other guy he was already jealous the more I'm with other guy.. Same you feel, at first it is flattering but as it gets on my feelings for him had changed, I really feel irritated.. Even with my cousins, my brother, my father and even to my friend whether boy or girl he was jealous.. I really hate him for that.. I felt that he don't trust me and he was totally crazy.. Because of his being insecure and not trusting me I left him.. I can't anymore stand his attitude and behavior.. At first, he don't want to break it up to me but as days go on I am moving away from him and hating him more, he finally left me.. However, because of his anger and hatred to me he makes sure that other people will think something bad against me.. Our friends hate me because he told them that I left him because I have another guy which isn't true.. It hurt at first but since there are a lot of people who makes me feel that I'm not alone and there is someone who always make me smile, I overcome with my ex.. Until now, me and my ex are not okay.. We don't talked to each other and I know that he still mad at me and I know also that I am still mad at him in all of the things he did to me before.. Now, I am happy with my boyfriend.. He is totally different from my ex because my boyfriend trust me and he never want to hurt me.. Actually, he is the one who's my ex talking that I left him because of another guy, my boyfriend now is the another guy and he is also the one who makes me smile when I broke up with my ex.. I really love my boyfriend now, and I know that I made the right decision..
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
ow..it is sad to hear that you parted ways with ill feelings for each other..i think, your ex-boyfriend has a psychological problem..my bf is jealous but not paranoid..im just gad you made the decision and move out of the situation before he destroy your self confidence...im happy that you found the right guy..Good luck and stay in love...
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Yes, I really did a right decision.. Maybe,if I didn't left him I won't be happy right now.. He is really paranoid.. That's why I left him..
• United States
3 Sep 08
hmm... tell him to stop sufficating you his not letting you breath tell him how you feel about it! i once had a jelouse boyfriend and if i looked in a direction were there was a guy even if i didnt notice him hed be like"who are you looking at youre checking him out arent you?" and im sad to confess it but his frequent nagging kind of drove me to cheat on him.Let me just say im not that type of person!=D
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
i told him that a lot of times..he cools down right away everytime i enumerate the painful things that he is doing to me emotionally..but i cant do that all the time..sometimes, the thing cross my mind too..but i just cant...