I Just Know I Will Cry? My Son Is Starting School Today - Pic of Him

My son in his uniform ready for first day at schoo - My son in his uniform all ready to start his first day at school.
@ellie333 (21016)
September 3, 2008 6:52am CST
I am just posting this before dropping my son pictured to school, he is all clean and smiley ready, for five minutes LOL. I know I will cry now my baby is all grown up. How did you feel your childs first day at school or your own first day? Did you cry? I think I am more nervous than he is but I have to drop him then off to work so I won't even see him until the morning to find out how he got on. This one is the hardest bit as his childminder is collecting him and I am not allowed time off as only just started back myself. Right gonna post then need to go and to all my friends I have been so busy organising haven't been here much but will play catch up soon. Ellie:D
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• United States
3 Sep 08
He is a cutie, Ellie. You will be fine, really. One day my sister called me, crying. I asked her what was the matter. She said, My baby went to school today! I know a lot of parents who have cried when their babies went to school. I cried when mine graduated. It took me that long to catch up with everything that had been going on.*L* I know you are disappointed that you won't be able to see him again until the morning, but you will make a special time for the two of you to catch up. Again, you will be fine, even if you don't think so at the moment. *Huggs*, if ya don't mind a stranger giving you a hug, one mother to another.*S*
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Hi Thebohemianheart, He was great going in and happy to do so which made it easier, I think I would have caved in if he had cried about it but he loved his day andwas really excited about going again this morning bless so I am really pleased that he is enjoying it. Can't believe how quick they grow up. The house feels a bit empty today. Thanks so much for the hug, that was appreciated and no ofcourse I don't mind. I think he is cute too but I am mummy so biased LOL. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
I knew exactly what you mean as my eldest daughter is at univesity at the moment and it seems like only yesterday she was born, in fact she is 22 today bless. All the best to your son, wow, I bet you are proud of him too eh! Going through the same sort of emotions I guess. Ellie :D
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• United States
4 Sep 08
I really hate to say this, but don't blink, he will be graduating and going off to college tomorrow because, yes, they do grow up fast. It does make it a bit easier when they like going off to school. And, it is fun to listen to them when they come home and share the things they have learned with you, like it was the first time anyone ever knew it. (hope that made sense)
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@PearlGrace (3171)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Hello Ellie. I think I might have shed a tear or 2 on my son's first day of school, but I didn't let him see it. I was excited for him because I knew he would think it was fun at school. You can make your talk with him special in some way, while having dinner, or a snack or breakfast, or going for ice cream or something like that. Know what it's like to be so busy. Life takes over and stuff's gotta get done. I understand what you are going through, Ellie. I am going to see the pic of your son now and will comment on it in the picture comments. Take care.
@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi PearlGrace, Oh I was choking back tears as I left him but didn't let him see them and he was fine and went straight in. The childminder said he came out full of it and looking forward to gong again in the morning. Huggles. Ellie :D
• United States
5 Sep 08
Hi Ellie. It sounds like you did so great just letting him walk right in that school, as tearful as you were. It's so amazing how strong and resilient kids are. Well, how fun is that that he is ready to go right back in the morning? Wonderful! Take care. Huggles.
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@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
my kindergartener - Here she is all ready to go to school!
Oh, I just know how it feels. My 2 older children are already in high school, so sending my youngest to school on the first day of school last June wasn't something new for me. I was excited for her, she was more excited about it. The other moms had to stay till classes ended because their children were crying. I, on the other hand, was able to leave my daughter at school on the first day. Aside from being quite independent, she was already aware that her big sister and brother didn't have me in school with them all day long.
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Hi Paulsy, Oh bless her she looks so happy and excited and such a beautiful girl. I couldn't leave a comment on the photo though as not on friends list but what a lovely girl you have there. The girls at my sons school where the some colour school dresses as his uniform is royal blue. They look so smart don't they. He was as good as gold going in and I could just leave him too and enjoyed his day and was just as excited the following day too bless. Quiet at home, but gettin used to it a bit now. Ellie :D
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
3 Sep 08
That's very hard Ellie, not letting you have a little time to see him after his first day. He'll be absolutely fine. It's you I'm worried about. I'm answering this from notifications so haven't seen the pic yet. But I bet he looks very smart.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
3 Sep 08
As I thought. Very smart. I hope that you both have a good day.
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi P1kef1sh, I dropped him off expecting him to cling and hug and he went straight in sat at a desk and started playing and said 'see ya mum, love you' I was so proud bless, I gave him a hug and a kiss and told him I loved him too and that his childminder would be picking him up as usual and he said ok and that was it. I was choking back tears as I went to the car, but my childminder text so I read in my break, now three on every night I work, finally got that one sorted, and said he had an excellent day and really enjoyed it. He did look smart for him bless. Don't worry about me I am fine, I bet the reason I'm getting a puppy is cos he is all gron up and I know I won't be having anymore LOL. Ellie :D
@Munchkin547 (2778)
3 Sep 08
He looks so smart!! I bet he has a great time at school! I haven't got any children of my own yet but i can remember my mum dropping me off for mine, she was crying her eyes out and all i wanted to do was go and play!! hehe i bet the morning will go quicker than you think! I hope he gets on ok, let us know!! xxx
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Minchkin, Oh he loved it, went straight in and was fine, I was choking back tears as I left him but didn't really have time to think about it as straight to work. Just home now and childminder said he really enjoyed himself and looking forward to going in the morning. I'm usually awake by 7 but I need to be up and out by 8.30 that should be fun. Huggles. Ellie :D
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3 Sep 08
Aw i'm glad he got on ok and that you coped well too! it'll be easier tomorrow now the first day nerves are over for both of you! you'll be in a routine before you know it!! xxx
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@titagdl (136)
• Mexico
3 Sep 08
I was the same when my son started school,,,i was more nervous than he was, especially beacuse he had been in day care and he was going to meet other kids today at a different school. But fortunately he didn´t cry a bit, I took him to school said goodbye and prayed he´d be ok. When i picked him up he was ver happy and excited to do his homework. The problem was the next two days, he cried then! I think the first day caught him off guard so he didn´t know what to expect, but after that he cried for about a week. And that was when I cried because it was heart breaking for me toleave him like that. Even though his teachers told me he stopped cying when he got to his classroom,it was still so hard on me.
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Hi Titagdl, When I read this I thought oh no as he had been so good on his first day and just went in but he was fine too the following morning an thoroughly enjoyed himself, they grow up so quickly don't they. I do think it makes it harder when they cry but usually once mum has gone as the teachers say they are fine. Thanks for sharing. Ellie :D
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@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
5 Sep 08
I can only guess how hard this must be, I have no reference of my own to compare with but I do know how it felt when my foster brother first went to preschool and that was allready hard on me. Imagine if he was my own child! He looks very handsome in his uniform, he looks so proud! Going to school is a great experience as a kid and I hope he has a great time. Be stong Ellie, and keep the photo as you will want to show it to him once he's a teen and might develope a certain distance from school: "look how happy you were that you were ALLOWED to go to school, now get going!"...lol!
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
5 Sep 08
That's allright, Ellie, take your time. There is no rush with this, I appreciate the gesture and you just take care and take however long you need. Birthdays and first school days are precious and you need to take in as much excitement as possible!! . I am picking up Karma and Bollie tomorrow, eek! Very excited!
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Oh wow, I bet you are excited, Oh post a pic when you have them both. I almost feel like another mummy as I was almost there at the birth too LOL. Huggles Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Hi Cyberfluf, Oh he did so enjoy his first day bless, he looks so grown up in his uniform though. He was just as excited the following day to so I am so pleased he is enjoying it. Been a really hectic week. I still haven't managed to get to the post ofice yet to send your bits but are now packaged ready. Bear with me, it was my daughters birthday too so a bit crazy this end, haven't really had time to be on myLot either. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
3 Sep 08
I went through this 3 times, lol. It took some getting use to, then I found ways to fill my time until they all got to come home. I worked at home typing for people, doing resumes and other things. I ran errands and killed time in other ways, just doing what I needed to do while they were in school, then when they were home I had all my time with them.
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Moondancer, This is my third time too but my other two are 22, and 17 so a few years ago now and he really is my baby as he is still four bless but was brilliant and enjoyed his day. It was me holding back tears as I left him. Ellie :D
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
3 Sep 08
[i]Hi ellie, I can see in his smile that he is very ready and excited...I have no kids and when I was reading your post, I am trying to recall also my Mom during those time, Well, this is life dear and for sure, when you will see him learning a lot, you will be very happy, that is just for sure for the first few weeks! You are also excited for him for sure! Looking forward to hear from you his first day at school! LOL! You make me excited for him too! LOL![/i]
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Checapricorn, Oh he went in very happily, it was me holding back the tears, LOL, my baby all grown up but I am happy knowing that he enjoyed himself and has made new friends already. Huggles. Ellie :D
@creematee (2810)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Hi Ellie! So, how did you do? My youngest started preschool 2 weeks ago, and I still haven't gotten over it. That's just 2 afternoons a week! Your young man looks so handsome, and will do just fine. You will do fine, too. It takes a little adjustment in our way of thinking. Kids grow up...but they shouldn't be allowed to though. Can you call him at the end of the day? Many hugs to you XOXOXOX
@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Creematee, Oh I remember my son starting preschool too and I think that was worse as they are still so very tiny. His childminder text, he said he had a wonderful time and he seemed very happy when I dropped him, he is used to me not phoning on the days I am at work and he knew his childminder was picking him up, I would have just thrown he routine if I had phoned. He is looking forward to going again tomorrow. It was me holding back the tears. It will get easier and you'll start to enjoy those two afternoons I'm sure. Ellie :D
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Of course I cried! LOL I always cry. My daughter went to first grade this year and I cried again! They grow up fast!
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Hi Skinnychick, He was fine and had a great first day and was happy to go again this morning. It just feels so empty here today but I am so pleased he is enjoying it and I am pleased to hear I am not the only one that cried LOL. Ellie :D
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@gemini_rose (16264)
3 Sep 08
Hiya Ellie, I know how you feel. I think you know but I have four kids, I was fine when my second and third children started school but I remember when my eldest started, it was the worst day of my life! With it only being me and him we were very close and when he started full time school he was nearly 5 wheras now they start at 3 with nursery. I had no time to get used to the idea he was just in. I remember taking him, I remember seeing them all lined up, I remember even now all his school mates, remember thinking how little they looked. I was gutted, but he was as happy as anything. I cannot believe that he is now nearly 17 and the next hurdle I will face is him leaving home. XxX
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Gemini, I suppose I am in a similare situation with the others grown so it has mainly been me and him on our own and we are so very close but he had a fantastic time but I had to hold back tears as I left him. I have had the leaving home bit and boy is that one strange, but I still get all the washing when they come back LOL. Ellie :D
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 08
Ellie, he's so cute! I don't have any children, but I was with my sister, when her eldest son started kindergarten. His dad was working that day, so I sent my sister there. We were not supposed to hang around in the classroom; but we could peep in, out of sight. It was rather an emotional moment - I saw tears in my sis' eyes - the little baby has grown up, like you said. I felt it too - seeing him at his desk, looking so attentive and suddenly so grown-up (he was so brave, he didn't cry). Your little boy will be making friends and having fun - so don't worry!
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Hi Lazeebee, Oh he loved his first day and was excited about going again when I dropped him this morning and I am really pleased he is enjoying it but it just feels a bit empty here at home at the moment. He just looked so grown up in his uniform bless. Ellie :D
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3 Sep 08
i have all this to come its a proud and emaotional day lol
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Sep 08
Hi Casey, Oh I was bery proud but sad too that my baby was finally grown up and going to school, he had a wonderful time though. Ellie :D
@SViswan (12051)
• India
4 Sep 08
I didn't cry. I was proud when my older one started school...and my younger one started very early and I was there with him. Don't worry about your son. He'll be fine and enjoy his day. I hope the playground has been cleared of those dangerous rods you were talking about in another discussion.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
4 Sep 08
I'm glad he enjoyed his first day at school (and that the concrete was removed). You are lucky...not every child enjoys going to school and especially not on the first day (even if it's not their first time). I teach kindergarten and you can imagine the amount of crying and the 'I want to go home' whines that I have to face at the beginning of each school year.
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Hi SViswan, Oh kindergarten I should imagine there are lots of tears, when he first went to nursery he was very clingy about me leaving and cried most days but his teachers thought he was such a loving boy and he would always give them a hug whn he left for the day and luckily he can still them sometimes at playtime so this has made the transistion easier I think. There was one little boy though that used to scream the minute his mum left for the whole session, that must have been such hard work for them. I think you do a remarkable job. I struggle trying to keep one occupied at times LOL. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Wow thanks for remembering, the concrete was still there on Monday and I phoned as said that I had been promised they wouldn't be and if not removed before the Wednesday I would be be wanting my son to stay indoors until removed and hey were very apologetic and got it removed that day. My son did enjoy his first day and I didn't cry as he was just so happy. Feels a bit starnge and quiet at home but he got up all excited to go again today bless. Ellie :D
@kaleegirl45 (1515)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Ellie, I wasn't able to see your son's pic while posting, but I just got a look at him, he is such a cuttie. He looks so handsome sitting here.
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• United States
5 Sep 08
Yes he is very handsome. he is going to break alot of hearts.
• United States
5 Sep 08
Ellie Yesterday was my daughter's first day as a Senior. I can't believe it, time does fly. I'm so happy that your son enjoy his first day.
@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Thanks Kaleegirl, he does look rather cute and proud to be sat there in his uniform eh! I think he is a handsome boy too but I am mum so biased LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
9 Sep 08
Your son is going to be a really bright person someday and a dashing guy at that! Girls will be all over him and he will not be in a rush to choose the best out of them, ha! Hi ellie. Seriously, nice picture. And where's his mommy..? LOL. You are such a great mom, I'm sure of that, and family will always be number 1 priority so I'm sure all of us understand that, so no worries. Do take your time. mylot will always be here waiting for you and hence people like me and the rest. Have a cheery day and I hope I will be a responsible dad or should I say parent like you someday. Take care.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
14 Sep 08
Hello there Ellie, there's certainly no need for you to apologize for I truly understand your situation. Now if you ask me, I don't know if I could make the cut as a great father but thanks for the belief in me, I have the confidence now, seeing that you are a great mom, and I respect you what with the experiences that you had been going through and all. Take care, as always.
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@ellie333 (21016)
14 Sep 08
Ah bless, you'll cut it when the time is right and in your heart you know that, you are one of the good guys which will make you a loving parent too in the future. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
12 Sep 08
Hi Zed, apologies for late response, puppy power at home is taking over and keeping me very busy LOL. Thank you so much for your kind words they are really appreciated. You have sused me well, my children are so important to me and we are all very close and loving and what a lovely compliment to me. Zed you will make a wonderful father as you are so compassionate and understanding though I believe I have said that to you before. I can't wait until you settle and have some and if still on the Lot you can share your adventures of being a parent with us. My son had a fantastic time at school and thoroughly enjoyed it for which I am so happy about. It is lovely to see him grow even if a bit tearful for me LOL. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@littleowl (7157)
3 Sep 08
Hi Ellie..aww how sweet they look lovely when dressed for the first time in their school uniform and when my eldest went to school I felt so proud to see him run off to his class..it was when my daughter went that however smartand pretty she looked on that first day when I got home I sat and cried as all of a sudden it hit me how my babies were growing up..so you are not alone..Love and Huggles littleowl
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Hi Littleowl, We love to see them growing up and doing their own thing but yes the house does feel empty this morning. I didn't cry as I thought I would but did well up a bit. He had a lovely first day and was really excited about going again this morning bless. Did your grandson start this week too as they are a similar age aren't they? Huggles. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Oh Littleowl, I hope he loved it as much as mine did, it is happy and sad all at the same time eh! Huggles. Ellie :D
@littleowl (7157)
4 Sep 08
Hi Ellie..today is my grandsons first day..am going to ring my daughter this evening to see how he got on and how she was too when he left....Huggles littleowl
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@liquorice (3887)
5 Sep 08
Hi Ellie, it's a lovely picture, and he looks so smart and proud! When you see them in uniform they just look so grown-up all of a sudden! My daughter starts pre-school next week, which I know isn't as big a step as starting school, but I'm not looking forward to dropping her off for the first time. I'm sure she'll be fine, just like your boy was, but I'll be all upset! Still, they can't stay babies forever. I hope he's still having a great time, it must be very exciting for him!
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Hi Liquorice, Oh pre-school is even a bigger step then school in a way as it is the first time you leave them to be independent away from you. They are usually fine, it is us that feels it more eh! My son was fine and really enjoyed himself which I am so happy about. The house just feels a bit quiet at the moment. I hope all goes well when your daughter sarts next week. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
My son started getting quiet and nervous just before he started but once there was elated so hopefully your daughte will be this way too. My son doesn't even get out of the bath clean LOL so have been through three sets of uniform so far! Ellie :D
@liquorice (3887)
5 Sep 08
Thanks! Yes, when we first talked about it and visited she was really excited about toys and painting and other children, but recently she's become a bit more thoughtful and quiet about it, and the other day she said that she didn't want to go to school. I'm hoping that she'll be ok once she sees all the other children. It does feel like a big step. I'm going to hopefully be doing some work of some kind on the mornings she's away, so I'll be keeping myself busy! I'm glad your son's loving his school. (Is the uniform still so sparkling clean? lol!)
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
4 Sep 08
Oh, bless him! I was fine when our daughters started school - probably because I still had kids at home to look after. It was when the last one went (our son) that I suddenly realised I was all alone and felt very strange! I used to enjoy taking them all to the supermarket each fortnight, and we'd have walks and ice creams and go to the park. It felt really strange to go home to an empty house when our son started school - and I didn't enjoy the shopping anymore. Boo hoo! I hope the dear little lad had a brilliant day - you'll really enjoy hearing all about it tonight!
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Sep 08
Hi Guybrush, That is how I felt this morning after I had dropped him, the house was empty and felt strange. He loved his first day and was rearing to go again this morning bless. He is the last of my brood too but I am so pleased that he has settled well and is enjoying it. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
5 Sep 08
Oh it is exciting Guybrush, still feels a bit quiet at home at the moment though. I showed Wendie (my friend who had her head shaved for charity) you beautiful comment and she welled up with tears bless so thank you your comment made a wonderful difference. Huggles. Ellie :D
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
4 Sep 08
I'm so happy it went well for him, Ellie - it's exciting when new phases of your life begin; for you and for him!
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