are you a patient person?

September 3, 2008 5:56pm CST
Are you a patient person? I used to be really patient until relatively recently when i find myself becoming more aggrivated with things. I am becoming more aggitated and have less and less patience by the day. Maybe its not the fact that more things bother me, its probably that things bother me more than they used to. I can let many things slide, but if it bothers me, i will try and tear it apart. Does anyone else feel like this? are you patient people out there? when was the last time you lost your temper?
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
4 Sep 08
I have very little patience. I loose my temper all the time. The last time I lost my temper was about 3 hours ago when my son was doing everything in the world BUT his homework. It was getting close to his bedtime and he was not doing it.
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@greenline (14838)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
I used to be a very hot tempered person. That's what all my friends and relatives used to tell me. But, today, they are all so surprised and amazed that I have become such a patient person. They are saying it is a miracle ! LOL ! Well, it is not a miracle. I think it is just passing through the realities of life !
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@redkathy (3374)
• United States
3 Sep 08
I am a patient person. Very high strung and patient at the same time if you can believe that. I haven't always been this way, just ask my family. LOL When I was young if someone wronged a family member they would come and tell me. They said I was the queen at telling people off. The telling off people is not something I am proud of however the defending my family part I am. Now that I have a much deeper faith, I have learned to be patient. I wait for the proper moment to give an answer, make a call, or maybe just let it go. My family is amazed yet agrees this is a much better way of going through life.
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• United States
4 Sep 08
I am not a patient person at all. Haha. its horrible. If anything is late or whatever I lose it and get like impatient and im like ahhh. I try to not let things bother me so much now. Its helped a little. My boyfriend helps me too with it. Im slowly but I am getting better with my impatientness and my temper is horrible when I get upset. I cry, i yell but yeah im getting better ;)
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• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I'm always a patient person, In the past I'm hot headed when I'm mature I surely a patient person, I'm angry when the neighborhood have gossips about me, but still patient person. But I'm also human and one time I get angrier when things I couldn't control meself. Little things like delay food prepation - I would consider it because its small things, but one time when my cellphone is lost that time I'm exploding.
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@dong1970 (1572)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
I am a patient person specifically dealing with somebody,i have to because of the nature of my job,I am a salesperson,one of the traits should i have is patience.I lost my temper sometimes but i should control it.Good Day!!!!
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
4 Sep 08
i used to be a patient person... but i think i had become a more aggravated and impatient person too nowadays... simple little thing can really trigger me and cause me to blow up... i know it is not a good thing... so i am trying to control my temper as much as i can nowadays and be more patient again like i used to be... i think the financial stress cause me to become the impatient person i am now... take care and have a nice day...
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
3 Sep 08
I am a rather patient person, when it comes to driving and such things but I like to get get things over and done with I hate waiting for things to happen sometimes, I am a floor pacer
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
It depends what is with. At work im really patient. But when it comes to family and friend si tend not to be, especially my boyfriend. Just some of the stuff they do, I dont understand why they do it and it bugs me. Even if is something completely small and not worth it, but I dont know why I get frustrated. Like when my boyfriend cooks, and he goes to cut up something, and he needs a little piece, but he cuts the WHOLE thing. its a waste and he knows it but he still does. Stuff like that, Im not patient at all.
• Malaysia
4 Sep 08
I am very patient until someone or things bothers reach maximum. Then i will burst like fire. I only get cool back after i scold that person. But i will regret later for doing that. The last time i lost my temper was two weeks ago.
@aimseeker (112)
• Pakistan
4 Sep 08
well i u talk about me.....can't b so sure...always try to be patient but becomes aggressive sometime....i think that all depends on the situation.....and ur mood too...sometimes you bear things with patience which is just awesome to have...but sometimes u become aggressive undeliberately....
@sarazeng (220)
• China
4 Sep 08
hi 3cardmonte! I think I am a too patient person coz I seldom lost my temper! I even can't remember when I lost my temper last time!!:P
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
I'm not a patient person, not at all. I get annoyed easily by the most insignificant things, especially when things don't seem to be going my way. I get agitated easily too, not to mention that my attention span is like that of a goldfish. I can't remember the last time I lost my temper and took it out on another person, though. I'm not the least bit patient but I do have loads of self-control. I guess that's a fair enough trade, at any rate. =)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Sep 08
I myself a patient person.I can easily handles situation.Though there are times i have to be more direct on other person because sometimes it needed to be blatant towards them in order to persuade or to do what you want them to be.
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 08
not really, i am not a patient person, i can't stand with traffic jump, i can't stand with lazy employee, i lost my temper last week when i saw my employee sleep at his desk.
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
4 Sep 08
It is said that patience is a virtue. I am not patient to the extent but have some good qualities of being patient.
@mchavez11 (1406)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
Sometimes yes but most of the time no. Though nowadays I learned how to be more patient a lot. I try to relax more and not get affected from things that pisses and annoys me. Also, I try to emulate and instill or adopt some good qualities from the people that I look up to like Evan Dando, Oasis, Rancid, and a lot more..Most of all I try to meditate and breathe deeply more often.
@snebxu66 (379)
• China
4 Sep 08
We must learn to be patient because the patience could help us successfully resolve some problems sometimes, meanwhile, it does good to our health. Sometimes I am not patient especially when many things bother me, but I try to control myself intentionally and often successful.
@scyzyyyy (94)
• China
4 Sep 08
NO,I am not a patient person absolutely,I ever had been a accountant before.the job made me more patient,but I was not good at dealing with a lot of figures yet,so I gave up that job.anyway,I am much patient than ever with the accountant experiences now.
@eddiecnw (10)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 08
I am quite a patient person, but at time I do loose my temper. I guess most of the time I tend to just hide our feelings no matter how irritated I am. And when I do that it will build up instead me until one point when I no longer can stand it, I will avoid the cause of it. If its because of a person then I will avoid that person. Its not the best way to handle it though but I just can't tell a person in the face that I don't like what they are doing so automatically I have to be patient. I think, you would regain being patient once everything cools off.. :D