Can a Lethargic Boy and a Working Girl make a workable Couple

India
September 4, 2008 10:05pm CST
I am talking about a working and earning simple Girl and a lethargic handsome boy who fell in love and want to make marry. What can be the hurdles in making a perfect couple. Can an Lethargic unemployed boy can make marriage successful with a working and earning girl. I have seen this working. The Girl was from a mediocre family and working with some corporate office and earning sufficient to carry on. She fell in love with a handsome boy and they make marry. The boy was dependent upon her income and do not do any work and for months he ate her all income and dreams of the girl started fading. I cam into the contact of that girl through some friend she told me the whole story and admitted that she was wrong in choosing the partner but she still loves her because he was not cheat at all in affairs. I advised her and told her to wait and try to make him understand and do some work. I also made efforts for some work for the boy and ultimately I started working and now they are happy and living a decent life having one child also. How do you think that a working woman and employed man can make a perfect relationship for life please discuss and share to gain more knowledge.
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3 responses
• India
5 Sep 08
provided the girl agrees to adjust, adjust, adjust, adjust, compromise, compromise, or just get away from boy when it goes intolerably over the head. tomorrow when he starts earning, then he would turn a MCP and then suppose if starts affairs then what about hte girls situation? just take care and be prepared mentally for allt eh situations to come.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 08
Well the world is changing. We need to accept the fact that men no longer the breadwinner of the family and most women now dominates the working world. We do not downgrade the men but what is wrong with being a househusband while the wife looks for money outside. Lets be open about it. Afterall love the man for what he is and not because of his incapability that you shun him from your life. It is just unlucky that he is out of job but a day will come when out of a sudden he emerge from his cocoon and make it big in some other means. I am sure his mind is working on something to make his family happy. So don't misjudge him, just live day by day now. God has plan for everyone. I believe in that.
@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Well yes that comes along with marriage. And the boy really needs to do something to help her wife from earning something. That is a very selfish way of living in a relationship. I am glad that you help the guy get a job to make things right. It is such a pain that a marriage would easily fail just because the other party is doing nothing at all to support the partnership. This could be remedied actually its just a matter that the guy would just do something for the family.