Patience.. What does it mean????
By vidhyavini
@vidhyavini (6111)
India
September 4, 2008 11:45pm CST
Hey guys.
I just get angry so soon. I don't have any patience. When someone does something to me, I never think why they are behaving like this. I will just get angry and shout at them. This is my present days. Before I was not like this. Take It Easy was my policy. Something went wrong somewhere. I hate myself now. I am trying to come back to normal these days.
Have you ever felt like this??? That you are out of control??? If so what did you do to change yourselves???
3 responses
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
6 Sep 08
I think " stress " might be the reason for the change of your behavior..
When ever I get angry..I count up to 100 in my mind...by the time you reach 100...your anger is defused..
Try this..I got this tip from a book , I don't remember the author and the name of the book...In one of the chapter , he mentioned ..that during training of army men...if there is a clash in between two under training candidate..they were not allowed to register a complain against the other, for next 24 hours.
By the time , the tension is defused...and normally , they are friends , and there are no complains...
Try this..I got this tip from a book , I don't remember the author and the name of the book...In one of the chapter , he mentioned ..that during training of army men...if there is a clash in between two under training candidate..they were not allowed to register a complain against the other, for next 24 hours.
By the time , the tension is defused...and normally , they are friends , and there are no complains...@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
6 Sep 08
Hehe. Good tips. Hehe. I will give a try man. Thanks. Happy to have your response.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
5 Sep 08
Hi vidhya,I used to be like you before.I used to get angry for everything and anything soon and shout without even thinking what had happened.But now after marriage and have one grown up daughter I gained a lot of experience and learnt to be very very patient.Now even my hub appreciates my patience .so everything is only for the time being.Dont worry,you'l also learn to be patient in future.Thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
5 Sep 08
Hmmm. Let me see if I do that. Now I am actually little patient. But not in the right way. I am just over disappointed in the matter of love, friendship and family. I just feel that I don't want anything and just keep quiet if they do anything. Especially to friends, I never mind what they do.
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
12 Sep 08
Sounds like stress to me. Are you stressed about something? Why not try relaxation techniques? Or daily exercises? Or even a bit of meditation. You will find yourself getting back into control. No point in getting angry. It just worsens matters.
Cheers and happy mylotting
