Will forgive your bf or gf break up with u because your best friend?

This kind of situation happens to me also when i was in first year college. It was kinda funny when i have to think it now.Why? because we are still friends! At first it wa so awkward though but if you learn to accept what had happened then everybody is happy. At first it was really hard to forgive my boyfriend. There are a lot of girls and why he felt in love to my bestfriend?? Thats really the big question mark i have that time. They just fool me for a month! My other bestfriend told me about it for she doesnt want to let that happen to believe that my boyfriend is still loving me for he is not. I even not settle it immediately or talk to them the time i know it. I was not able to because they bought not seeing me after they know that i know already about both of them. All i did is forgive them. Maybe you will say its not that easy.Yes its really not that easy. It was really hard for me but who i am not to forgive them. Even God can forgive no matter how big is the sin how much more me? I am just GOD's creation. I forget everything and let it be. I am happy for them anyway. Meaning we are not for each other. So, accept the REALITY. At present, we are still bestfriends. Forget everything in the past and start anew. Now we had a more prosperous friendship, stronger friendship than ever.

It is not possible though. If I were the guy, I wouldn't forgive them. Lol

Well i think Vera's boy friend did the right thing by callling her and letting her know up front that he was breaking up with her because he fell in love with her best friend...Vera's friend did betray her because she should have NEVER even thought of going with her best friends b/f...Sometimes we just cannot help what happens..Maybe it was just meant for them to fall in love,and they were meant to be together.As for the forgiveness part that would be up to Vera.I am sure she is very hurt,and maybe for the time being she should just stay away from them & let herself heal...She may never be best friends with Vera but she will need to at least not hold on to hate or unforgiveness..I don't know if i could be best friends with her,but i would try to overcome the really bad feelings because that only hurts you when you hold in hate & resentment..I think i would forgive her but she would probably Not be my best friend again.....She betrayed Vera's trust and doubt she could ever really trust her again....

Hi merrycherry, I can understand your friend's boyfriend, well he is a man his brain in one place but the best friend I can't you don't do that to a friend so in my opinion she was never really a best friend so your friend is well shot of them they deserve each other. Tamara