whats one thing you miss?

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
September 5, 2008 3:00pm CST
i know that when we get in relationships at the beginning we usually do things that soon fade out, like for some people they are romantic and things like that when they are starting a relationship and for others they call each other all of the time and it fades out a little for the most part after a few months or a few years or something like that and i know that with me i miss the excitement she use to have when we would talk...and she still gets excited but it just seems like its getting more and more hard to make her go awww... and all of that stuff..because its been done...so what is one thing that you miss that might have faded out...thanks for taking the time to review my discussion and i maybe replying to it, i hope that you all had a great day today and your night is great as well, have a great weekend as well, thanks again!
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
17 Sep 08
My husband and I used to lay in bed a couple of evenings a week and watch movies and talk about anything that came to mind. With both of us working, home schooling our kids, and all the activities that go along with them, we just don't have much time for that sort of thing. I hope that we get to do it once in awhile this winter and I plan to put a DVD player in the bedroom soon so that we might be able to do it.
@orochi (318)
• Denmark
6 Sep 08
Man that brings back memorries when i wanted to be a runescape member and wanted to do anything to become it. I remember the day my friend gave me an account with member i was so happy. Sadly i became opsessed when at school i had nerves of playing it. But when it ended so did my fun but well now im managing. It is still missing but i have to be patient untill i get my cash to membership.
• Malta
6 Sep 08
Our relationship has changed, but for the good. There used to be sweet words and all the stuff you mentioned, but I don't miss them as all we say comes from the heart. It is a lot less than what we used to say but we still go out, have fun, we help eachother, take good care of eachother's feelings, still fancy eachother which is more than enough considering all the arguments and misunderstandings all couples have. All the things we do not say now are felt in our hearts and we know that from eachothers eyes. My husband doesn't have to say "I love you" though he says it occasionally. Just one look in his eyes and I know it. And that is worth a million words!
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
6 Sep 08
I miss a lot of things. The thing that I miss most is freshmen year. If the time went away, it would never come back! I miss the time.
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
6 Sep 08
Am missing my Wife.
@dropofrain (1167)
• India
6 Sep 08
I think every relationship fades out time and again. To review each relationship is important to live it longer. From time to time give yourself time to live more and more into that relationship. It is quite easy to forget things but you need to live it to the fullest so that it does not fade out.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
5 Sep 08
With my husband and I relationship I can really tell there's nothing change with our relationship. 3 years of being apart was a happy but sometimes tough relationship. Now that we are still together, he is still the same. Before, I had an anticipations that he might change with how he treats me but I was wrong. Maybe there are some changes, but good changes for both of us. Our relationship together are getting more sweeter and stronger with the blessings and trials we are having in our marriage life
• India
6 Sep 08
Relationship can not be established with a flick of eye or seeing each other. These are developed slowly when we exchange our views and understand each other not only on one particular thing but life as whole. When such relationship developed by the passage of time and many meetings and indulging in so many social affairs,functions etc. Relationship developed on sound footings and then converted into a bond for life then both the partners care and share each others sorrows and pleasures and are there to go to the any extent to be more nearer and closer the ultimate relationship is established on mutual trust. Most missing thing in the general relationship is that the trust. If trust goes every thing goes.
• Sweden
6 Sep 08
I think the only missing to my husband is the time he always said I LOVE YOU maybe 10 more times,but now he do it maybe 5 to 6 times only.So somtimes i ask him where is your I LOVE YOU? and laugh,Ever since i met my husband nothing change on him he still the guy i was fall in love with. Other partner change specially when they already like for example 5 years or more.But for my husband i dont think so but anyway we are only 3 years know each other and living together for a almost a year now so we just see hehehe,if he change or not! I hope he will not .
@magna86 (1786)
• India
6 Sep 08
of course thats true!! you do that first to impress the person!! and also to make them yours!! and after that .. you take advantage of the other person!! you just give them half the time you gave them at the start! but i should tell there are always atleats 2 in a thousand who are exceptional!!
• Pakistan
5 Sep 08
well i think that what life is all about... nothing can stay the same here... i am not really married yet... but my husband to be used to message me every hour every minute.. before i got the lagal contract signed.. and after signing that.. when he is confirm i am all his... he is not tht much intense... i miss that intensity... and care... i know he loves me... but that madness and passion is alwayz missed... and it fades as the time passes
@jewl1126 (102)
• United States
6 Sep 08
Of my marriage of 14 years, the one thing I truly miss is the uninterrupted time to just talk, watch a movie or just go out without having to worry about munchkins running around and finding a babysitter. We were never glued to each other's hip, we definitely gave each other our own space, but when we would be together we did just about anything we felt like doing. Now if one of us wants to go somewhere the other one stays home with the kids. I even miss just grocery shopping with my husband...sounds silly, but we would always laugh and it didn't seem like such a boring errand. Very good question, it's one that makes you go, hmmm, we haven't done this in a while, maybe....sometimes we become so "comfortable". I commend you, as a husband, for thinking of your lady and still trying to keep the flame lit. That in itself shows her your love.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
I didnt miss anything that me and my hubby usually do since we are still doing it until now. He was still the same sweet person i knew. If theres one thing that change that would be living in one roof! lol so nothing really change. I am more paranoid over those kinds of stuff. I even asked him so often about how much he loves me and if ever i gain weight will he still loves me lol. So i guess what the relationship needs is a little time with each other during weekend doing interesting things instead of the usual things you do. A new place to visit or a new plan every weekend will for sure makes her excited since women loves surprises. One thing for sure that you should also keep in mind is that the two of you must be the best of friends. It would be nice if you could talk about the problem once in a while. In that way she will know that your starting to miss the things you often do before.
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
I miss her.. everything in her. Those sweet little eyes that stare at me, those tender loving care, i miss having an angel by my side, those hands that hold me every step on the way, her arms wrap next to mine, i miss my morning star that makes every single day a Christmas day. How I wish we'll be okay soon.