Do you still look back even if your over?

Philippines
September 5, 2008 3:48pm CST
I had a girlfriend before and every time our paths cross i can't help to think the times we've spent together and i really miss her. Is it normal? have a current girlfriend right now? Am i being unfair?
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@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
Hi markroderick, Are you sure you're really over her? The fact that you miss her might suggest that you're still not over her or even might still be in love with her. It doesn't mean that having a new girlfriend would also mean that you are over your ex girlfriend already. It doesn't work that way. But if you're really done with her then I don't think there's anything wrong with reminiscing the past. But I'm not sure with the part that you miss your ex girlfriend. If your intentions with your current girlfriend is pure then you're not being unfair; but if you are still in love with your ex girlfriend then you are being unfair to her and you are deceiving yourself. Figure it out markroderick.
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• Philippines
10 Oct 08
thanks for the reply. Yes i dont know why i still feel that way. Its been years that we're not together but still i thought about her if she's okay or not. I know its unfair to my current girlfriend but im really trying not to think of my past girlfriend. Because we do have a life of our own at the moment. And i should focus i guess on the present. thanks for the advice.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I think you're still in love with her. The way you answer with uncertainties definitely is a sign that you are still in love with her. It might be your thought that you are currently stuck with your girlfriend that's why you wanted to be faithful but in your heart and in your mind you still want your ex girlfriend. Why don't you put a closer to it? Help yourself in deciphering what your heart is really telling you. There might be people getting hurt in the process so you better act on it now. I hope the best for you.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
I think it's just normal to remember and reminishing the past even your in a relationship. But usually I just smile and laugh at it,or sometimes it also feel me sad because of what happened. I don't think it's unfair to my new gf,as long that I am open with what I feel,and she should not get jealous of it cause that is just a part of my past. Have a nice day!
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@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
I think it is time for you to move on and stop clinging on your past. You are obviously being unfair to your current gf. If you love her start forgetting about your past. You cant love two people at the same time. I know at first it is hard but eventually you will learn to forget about her and all you need to do is teach yourself not to reminisced the good old days when you are still together. You have already decided to separate lives so now its time for you to focuse on your current life and be happy with it.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.