He is having an affair?

United States
September 7, 2008 2:26am CST
I just read this article at yahoo that tells the signs that a husband is having an affair.But I can see a guy doing all these things and not having an affair.Here is the list. He is super protected of his gadgets. He steps up his grooming.He smells different, different from when he went out or to work.He isn't fazed by little things.And he is now suspicious of you.Of all these signs the only one that I agree with is him smelling different.All the others could be his natural character.What do you think?
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
7 Sep 08
I think if he suddenly becomes more attentive of his personal appearance....that's a sign. If he suddenly is protective of his gadgets? I don't know about that one. Fazed by little things.....I think that is not true. I think if he were having an affair he would be on guard and fazed by little things....I think there are other signs that point more to him having an affair. More obvious like working late, unneeded trips to the store, extra miles on the car. Things like that!
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• United States
7 Sep 08
I agree. And being away when he is physically there. I mean he is sitting with you but his mind is a million miles away.That would be a sign for me.
7 Sep 08
I know men/women who changed nothing but were having affairs. Their normal everyday patterns didn't change but they would say "I have to work late" or "I have to work overtime on the weekend". Sometimes people just change to improve themselves or to feel better about themselves. It doesn't mean they are having an affair.
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• United States
7 Sep 08
Exactly. That's what I thought when I read this list.Just because a guy wants to start working out does not mean he is having an affair.
@Beaver72 (446)
7 Sep 08
I'm guessing the article you read was meant to a guide and not concrete information. I think the only way you can reall tell if someone is having an affair is to catch them red handed, anything else is just circumstantial evidence
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7 Sep 08
A woman can feel 80% that his spouse is having an affair But a man can only feel 50%.
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