Are you a bad anything?

I am a very bad socializer, because I hate to talk on the phone. I almost never call anyone. A couple of people accept that about me, and they seldom call, but they do still call, and we do get together. But some peope think I'm just snobby. It's actually a combination of shyness, not wanting to impose someone else's life or family, and having more that I have to do than I can handle. When I do take a break, it's usually on myLot! I'm a bad daughter, sister, cousin, etc., because I refuse to have anything to do with any blood relative, and I have refused for many, many years. I just won't deal anyone who's abusive, and my status as a surprise that came along when everyone else was grown made them resentful and abusive. As far as I'm concerned, my husband, our family, and his family are the only ones I have.