My Husbands Woman....She's so thick!!

@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
September 7, 2008 8:41pm CST
Last night, while cooking i saw my husbands cellphone at the cabinet, i was tempted to open it, i know i was invading his privacy but my intuition is strong that i'll find something if i open it, while scanning i opened certain messages which i know come from his other woman. I was so shock to read his messages, the woman says that my husband should talk to me regarding my son to leave it to them because i am leaving outside the country to work, that time my whole being was so full of anger, i confronted him right there and then in front of my father, he' also shock when i show him his cellphone. I confronted him about that woman but he deny it, he' claiming that that woman id just so obsess to him that that woman is so assuming that there still there is something in them, i didn't believe him, he's good to that woman.. I texted the woman and gosh she's so thick!, she told me that now i know that she love my husband hy i still stay?? why i want to meet her and talk to her, that i should go away from them, She's so thick!! that woman is a wh0re. why there are still woman who wants to ruin somebody's family, why they can stand to ruin somebody's family? are they really obsess or they are insane??
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@keasling (723)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I wish I could truly help you on this. You knew about this affair? or did you just found out about it? Either way the woman should not stand in the way between you and your husband. For your husband to still text her is not right either. I wish you luck in this. If you ever just want to vent you can always pm me. I am a great listening ear :)
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
Yes, i knew it before, they are in the same office, my husband told me that he already ended what they have but the woman is so assuming but i cant accept his alibi, if he's avoiding that woman they will not have a conversation like that and why they keep on talking about my son? I felt that they are trying to steal my son since that woman is incapable of having a child.
@keasling (723)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I would worry about that. Are you 100% sure that your husband ended it? Either way I would start documenting everything that is going on. Make sure you always have the upper hand. I would worry about them trying to take your son as well. She has no reason to talk about your son in any manner.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
He said he already talk to that woman and ended everything but i dont want to believe him, knowing that i already know about them he should be the one who will avoid to that woman, he will not do anything that will hurt his family. That woman has no right to talk about my son and she has even no right to include my son in their affair. I dont care if she's not able to have one, its her problem but what i want is to spare my kids, i felt that since she's not able to have her own children she want to get mine.
@Bebs08 (10685)
• United States
30 Sep 08
This is ridiculous!!! I don't understand why that woman is so attach with your husband though she know he is married? I would think that your hubby also give her a chance to do that? I mean he is so kind and tender? or he give special attention to that obsession? If he frankly tell the woman black and white that he he never have plan for her and he loves his family more than anything else, maybe I could say she is so thick face!!! But if your hubby give attention to her, to take the opportunity, that is another story. There are men that even they don't like the woman, they will just give in just for fun.. maybe feeling proud that somebody is dying with them? well, if I am in your situation, there's no use quarreling your husband, It might, push him to decide about the other woman. I know it is hurting and upsetting. But being kind to him is the bes thing to hold him. If you are upset all the time, it will drive him away from you. Just remind him that you are legally married and you can take any action legally if he will fool you. But might be good to do it in a calm way. I know you and your kid is still his choice if you will not so mean to him because of this. And don't pursue your plan to go abroad. That will make the things worst. If you love you family and think about the future of your kid, stay.. Just my opinion... Good luck.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I talk to his woman, in a calm way, she expect me to nag her but she's wrong i wasn't raise to have fight to any woman because of any man.. Before she's tough, she tell me if my husband love me why he went with her when she's inviting him to go over some place where they could do such things.... I almost slap her but i just told her that my husband is a man and any invitation with pleasure like that there's no can could ever say no to that.. My in-law was shock when she hears it (she's with me when i talk to that woman) when we went home i decided to go and leave him my in-law texted that woman if she's happy knowing that she had wreck one family.. before she's tough but on the end she's saying how sorry she is and what she have told me is all fabricated and not true... I dunno but the best thing to do is to stay away with them, Only time well tell on when can i forgive them, but now what i want is to have a bonding with my kids while waiting on my flight.. Is there any reason to stay with such kind of man? he should understand woman and he should know how to take care of woman..
@nickventere (1423)
• Zambia
8 Sep 08
Sounds a little funny, though irritatingly annoying. It is funny that some woman who is totally aware of your legal relationship with your husband can choose to forego all moral sense and uprightness to interfere in your marriage. On the other hand I would not want to blame the woman alone. I think your husband has to sort things here since he is equally a subject of this affair. Perhaps you should ask him to admit and end that affair. You have the evidence that the woman has testified to you that she is going out with him.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
I really hate to think that there are woman like that, yes i know that my husband has a fault also coz he's welcome this kind of affair. though he keep on denying that he already ended their relationship he said that the woman so so obsess to him, actually almost 2 years ago my husband let me read the text of that woman offering that she will accept to be a mistress just not to leave her alone that she cant live with out him, my gosh! she's so insane. My husband says negative though about that woman that she's out of her mind but still i dont want to believe him, how could that woman assume or claim that they still have something if it is really over?? right now i was full of hate to both of them.. I hate them both..
• United States
8 Sep 08
Well i hate to say this but it takes two i know first hand,it not just one person how did she get his number,she maybe thick but she had to have some help in this.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
They are in the same company...
@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
If I get it right, your husband is still working in the same company with her? I emphatize with you. It's hard to have a peace of mind knowing that your husband is still seeing her everyday at work. Just be alert. Always watch your back. Husbands will always deny their illicit affair. They will never admit it. I'll pray for you and your family. I hope that your husband is teling you the truth. But like I said watch your back.