One is a virgin the other is not

@Virgie60 (556)
United States
September 7, 2008 11:09pm CST
If when you get married the women is not a virgin and the man is do you think that later on that he will wonder what he missed and will want to do it with someone else? See that is our situation. I had experience with a couple of guys and he didn't have any experience. Now sometimes he hints about what he missed. I know he wouldn't cheat as he is not that sort of guy but I just wonder if another guy would if he was in his shoes. What do you think???
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Some guys would and some guys wouldn't. Would it matter the other way around. If the woman is a virgin and the man is not. Would she wonder what she missed and cheat. Some would, some wouldn't. My husband and I fall into that virgin wife, experience husband bit and I wouldn't cheat. I don't think I have missed out on anything by waiting for him.
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@Virgie60 (556)
• United States
9 Sep 08
I am glad that you feel that you have not missed out on anything. I don't think it would have made me feel like I had missed out if I had been a virgin but then again who knows. I think that hubby is having a mid life crisis and that is why it crosses his mind.
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@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
ahm? can you revise your question cause I can't understand what you wanted to ask? what you mean is, when a men marry a women that is not virgin anymore? does it matters? is that it?
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@Virgie60 (556)
• United States
9 Sep 08
No see it is like this I was not a virgin but my hubby was. He now sometimes wonder what it would have been like to have been with someone else. I just wondered if other virgins felt that way too.
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