pregnat ?!

Philippines
September 7, 2008 11:26pm CST
i have seen people in our place get married because they are pregnant... do you think that's a valid reason? will your marriage last if that was the reason why you got married? coz for me, i don't think so... i am not in favor of getting married just because i'm pregnant... how about you???
1 response
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
hi! i think marriage because of pregnancy is very very prevalent nowadays. every where you look you can find a pregnant woman who was engage in pre-marital. And this persons get younger and younger as years pass by..and a new generation was born. Marrying because of pregnancy could be okey, because it could be the solution to other problems, like childen being born out of wedlock, or abortion (because abortion are mostly done because the father of the unborn child would accept his responsibility). Also, i think that in the first place these two person has committed the act....both has given their consent, so it means that their must be love their or some chemistry that is why they have done it. so i think it is okey for them to marry. it would really be unfair for the lady to shoulder all the consequences and responsibilities that are formed because of what they have done. In the first place, why commit the "act" if you wouldnt get marry in the end?
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
i'm sure there is love somehow... but don't you think that would just fade coz in the first place you got married because of the baby, not primarily because of love?