Babies afraid on me

Philippines
September 8, 2008 12:45am CST
Everytime I went to my relatives and friends, I want to get close to their baby but they afraid and always crying. I play with their toys just to make them smile but it was always a failure. Even they dont know but deep in my heart I always think, can I be a good father someday? Can they respect me? Hohoho what a question in my mind. What should I do guyz? Can you give me some tips of taking care of babies? Mothers please help me.
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5 responses
• United States
8 Sep 08
maybe they sense that you are nervous.. im sure when you become a dad it will come to you and with it being your baby there wont be any problems.. with experience with your own baby you will be more comfy with others and etc etc.. some kids just dont like anyone..
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
LOL! I will try to remember your suggestion. Thank you to all of you especially the two of you (phelyne and iceblizzard) I will try to get along with them often. And also I wont forget to take off my sun glass. I just use it during day light and when facing computer.
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Yay! At long last I earned a best response. LOL! Thanks for accepting my comment. Best Regards to your babies!
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
LOL! Yah thanks hope in the near future I'l have my own babies. I will hog them hardly I really love babies especially those newly born. They are really cute I cant stop looking at them while sleeping on their favorite dress.
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 08
LOL! I understand your feeling. I know it is not something physically that babies recognize from people. I mean, babies are really sensitive, they can sense the bad things around. Not telling you that you're bad, but I realize one thing like, babies used to be scared of me too... When I am around, they'll cry like they see ghost. But it was then when I didn't like babies. They can sense my hatred to them so they were afraid. But now when I like babies, they likes me too, but still... they cry when I was with them with a really bad mood
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
There are babies that are too observant about what is going on around, and he/she can recognized those who are around. Maybe the baby don't see you that much often that is why he/she is crying when you get close to him/her. Try to play around with the baby more often, so he/she could recognize your presence. This also happens to me with my nephew, at first I play around with him more often, then I was assigned some in other place for my work, when I got home, and I went to play with him, he started crying out loud, i wonder what happen coz I used to do it before, then his mother told me maybe he doesn't recognize me anymore that is he is crying, so try to get to play with the baby more often.
@Phelyne (129)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I hope you're not wearing those sunglasses when you go to them. I think they'd scare babies. As for being a good father, I don't think you can really judge by other peoples babies. It's different with your own.
@Anne18 (11034)
8 Sep 08
If it helps I am a mother of four and before I had my own babies, all other people's babies used to cry on me. I think they can sense we are nervous of them, so just chill out and have a very good time