Alcohlic husband nd u

This may not an easy situation to fix! I suggest you to talk to him and let him know how much you get upset and if its not working or he doesn't change! I think you should take him in rehab.

Hi Kavinsh. I wish to provide you with some advice based on two personal perspectives if I could. Firstly, I had a Father who had a drinking problem throughout my childhood; and secondly, I too went through a phase where I drank way more than I should have on a regular basis. Thankfully I never got to the stage it seems your husband has but I still was not as in control as I should have been. In my opinion the main thing is to give your husband a final ultimatum. I am sure you have asked him many times to change or seek help but after 4 years it is now crunch time. Ask him one more time to seek help with your support, or you will take the children and leave. If he STILL refuses to help you help himself then you need to reach out to your friends and family and remove you and your children from this situation. Believe me, NO child should have to grow up thinking this is OK. Sometimes people like your husband need to hit rock bottom before they are prepared to stand up and face their demons. If he does not accept your ultimatum then he may come to realize once you have gone that he HAS to change to get his family back. I know this is a tough, tough situation and act to do but you owe it to yourself and to your children. Good luck and I wish you all the best with improving things.

my husband used to drink a lot too and we often quarrelled bitterly over it. i persuaded him over and again but got little effect. now he is getting older and has realized the importance of health. now he doesn't drink any more. ask him to go to hospital to have a physical examination. as he always drinks so much, perhaps there is something wrong with him. when he learns his health has been hurt, i think he will control himself.