love

Philippines
September 8, 2008 9:44am CST
s love really enough to make the person stay?
3 responses
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
8 Sep 08
cutieapril, I'm sorry that you're having such a rough time right now. To answer your question, no there are times when love is not enough. I was in a relationship long ago with a man I loved...and he loved me but I had three children and he had none so taking on that much responsibility was hard on him. He loved my children, too, but he ended up leaving after a few months and we continued to see each other. After a couple of months he wanted to come back and I promised myself at that time that, if he left again, I was not going to put myself through that pain again. As it turned out, about three months later, he felt overwhelmed again and moved out again and this time I changed my phone number afterwards and let him go. It hurt...it hurt alot...but love wasn't enough for him to stay and I needed consistancy in my life...for me and for my kids.
@reoko10 (578)
• United States
8 Sep 08
yes if that person really lovers you and you really love that person enough to change your way.I know love was enough to make me come back and had another child so I say yes.
8 Sep 08
Nope, it is not fair to use love against a person in situations because the person who is leaving might want to follow their dreams but love might by holding them back in life.