Why Did I Get Married?

Zambia
September 9, 2008 12:30am CST
This is for the married ones: Have you ever stopped and wondered why you got married? What makes you ask yourself this question? [b]Is it your spouse's behaviour or attitude or something they said? [/b]How do you overcome this regretful question and feeling. And if you have see Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married?, did you learn anything from it? Thanks, in advance, for sharing your experiences with me.
4 responses
• India
9 Sep 08
i have thought over this question about zillions and zillions of times. it is only my husbands attitude, behaviour towards me which makes me harp over and over this question without an answer. ihave not seen the movie which you mentioned over here. my life story itself is a big movie which would become a super duper hit once really made into a movie. i learn and have learnt many many things from my husband attitude behaviour towards me and otehrs. i have learnt hte real meaning of life.
• Zambia
9 Sep 08
I really feel for you. I hope you and your dear husband could work out something somewhere somehow. Try and make things work. I would also recommend that you see the movie Why Did I Get Married? together with your husband. It is a very good picture that you will enjoy together. During and after watching it, you will have realised what differences you two have and how to try and work round them to make things work. I wish you the best!
@rsa101 (21886)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
That's rather a difficult question to answer as the answer is not really clear why. Well there is a certain age in us that we feel different about ourselves already. The feeling if settling down where when you were single there is this feeling of being alone and being with somebody is needed. It is really hard to describe but there is this feeling that you need a partner in life.
• Zambia
9 Sep 08
basically, we tend to be anxious and apprehensive about everything that happens or goes on.
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Not really. I mean I know why I got married. Also I use this question when I am frustrated. LOL! No really, I usually ask this when i am not in the mood, or I'm mad so that I get to reflect.
• Zambia
9 Sep 08
In short, you don't really mean it when you ask yourself this question? Nice to hear and thanks for your contribution.
• United States
9 Sep 08
I have asked myself this questions soo many times when I felt frustrated, tired, bored or have low self esteem. It happens now and then you know and you dont know why ? but I guess its normal for women to feel this way sometimes. But then when I look back in my life, I would say that I get married because, it comes to the point where I could not go on living far away from my boyfriend. Eventhough it means giving up my job, far away from my family and move to a strange place. I would say, that I never regret that decision up to now. I am happy for the life I have chosen and hopefully things will go on the way it is.