break up

Philippines
September 9, 2008 8:03am CST
how to survive a break up? im weak... i think i cant live without her.... god knows i love her so much... y cant i let go?
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9 responses
@rainmark (4302)
9 Sep 08
i do experienced break ups, i know how it feels, very painful, at first you can't accept that your relationship will be ended after all the years and time that you'll be together. But we must face the reality, if someone not meant for you no matter how you try to save your relationship, you will still break up. But i found that after a month of broke up, you'll getting ok, just keep away from sentimental songs, keep busy and you'll surprise you are not hurt anymore! happy myloting!
• United States
9 Sep 08
I know the feeling that you are feeling. A few years ago I went through the same thing. Me and my boyfriend of four years broke up, but it wasn't my idea. I was really hurt the day he told me and we had been together so long that I didn't know how to live without him. I would cry everyday, I was very depressed and I didnt want anything to do with anyone, not even family. I had to take day for day to realize that I could go on, that it was his lost and my best friend was my support system. I had to actually get out the house and go places, you know do things. When I sat at home he was all I thought about, but I had to attempt to let go, I had to believe there was something out there better. I loved him very very much, but I tell you, you can let go, you just have to believe that you can let go. Its going to be hard and you will have to take it one day at a time, but u have to believe that its more out there. And if you really love her you would want her to b happy right? You have to love her enough to let go and do what she needs to do. Go out and do something for you, take time for yourself, thats what I had to do.
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
tnx bit i cant understaND MYSELF RIGHT NOW... I WNAT TO HURT HER ALSO...
• United States
9 Sep 08
I know you do, but you cant make someone b with u if they dont want to....and hurting her is not going 2 do anything but make it worse...what if she did in fact want to b back with u, but u hurt her that could rerally ruin ur chances...i honestly know that ur hurting, but u have to know that its going to get better
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
i tried everything to keep myself busy but she keeps on hunting me... i think im sick
@kavinsh (78)
• India
11 Sep 08
hi cutieapril if u love her so much then why such situations were created for what u have to opt breakup. i think even no woman want the breake up. but............... when circumstances are not under control then only she has to take such decisions. try to talk her and to solve ur problems jointly. take care.
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
well dear.. i can understand your feelings.. butlet me tell you the rule " time is the best healer" you will survive... and you will live happily without her... beleive me.. it will take some time.. but you will... life never stops... take help of your friends... ghang out and chill.... avoid listening to stupid love songs... avoid going to places where you have been going with her... your friends can help you out thru this situation.. so take a chill pill.. and do not worry...
@krkchn (160)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Just give it time. Most people handle it by being busy or getting a hobby to keep their minds off the situation. Or go out with your friends and do something
• United States
9 Sep 08
A hear ye. A found it really hard when my ex left it. It gets better. It's the worst feeling in the world losing someone though. I still think of him as he was my perfection but hey wizny meant tae be. Onwards and upwards. Now a think back he wasn't perfect. x
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Well, I've never experienced a break-up before but a lot of my friends have and I'm usually with them when they go through this phase. I'll tell you what I told them. Maybe the relationship wasn't working out anymore and one of you wasn't growing anymore. It's very difficult to let go. You've become so attached to her. You have to slowly let go. It may be very difficult at first but you have to. I'm sorry.
@tatiana07 (498)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
when you break-up with your partner it seems that your whole world shattered and the feeling that you can't recover the pain but no, break-up starts a new beginning to love...so, you have to accept the break-up, acceptance is a must for you to move on..then try to go out with friends or have a vacation, having a new environment is helpful also for recovery..and lastly, try to find someone who will make you smile again...(",) happy mylotting!!
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
that's really a normal reaction from a fresh break up... you think you can't survive every single day without the person. all i can say is keep yourself busy... have divertional activities so that you can't think of her.. be with you friends... avoid being alone coz that tends to bring back everything.. you'll get through that eventually. remember that the only cure for love is love itself.. you're gonna be alright... that's part of growing up... it will also make you strong...