Could you trust someone after you've been cheated on?

September 9, 2008 10:16am CST
I was cheated on by my ex-husband. Some years later i met and married my present husband. I told my friend that i couldn't trust him 100 percent, she instantly said "You shouldn't be married then". Do you think she's right? Im really not sure, but i am happily married.
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@sameroad (3180)
• United States
9 Sep 08
IF you do not trust him... then i agree with your friend. You shouldn't be married to someone you can not trust. That's great that your happily married... but if you don't "trust" him.. How long is that happiness going to last? I couldn't even be with someone if i didn't trust them, let a long marry them. but relationships and regardless of what type of relationships. (marriage, couple, friends.etc) you need "trust" in that relationship to have a good relationship. That is how i think anyway....
10 Sep 08
Yeah i get what you mean, I guess maybe i should have a talk with my partner. Just hope he will take it the right way..