boy/girl fantasies

I used to have fantasies like that also. And actually the guy I am with right now does fit the mold that I set. He's taller than I am, very intelligent, funny etc. Other things like the wedding and stuff not yet cause that stuff hasn't happened yet lol.

My fantasy hasn't changed much as I've aged. Taller than me, dark hair, nice smile, good sense of humor, intelligent. Has it come true? No. Not even close. I have yet to meet the man who fits the bill. I've met a couple who come close, but most of the time they have some detriment which obliterates the other positives. Fantasies are nice. Unfortunately, they can limit our world-view. Sometimes we get so caught up in our little check-lists that we miss the people who really fit the bill. I'm not so caught up in finding Mr. Right (as I see him), but I'd like to find a guy with certain core attributes. If I do, all the better, if I don't, well, I've heard being a nun is a fulfilling lifestyle choice. :)