in our opioin whos job is it to take out the trash

@heaven11 (1159)
United States
September 10, 2008 9:01am CST
at my house both my hubby and i take the trash out it just depends on who sees it full but i have talked to sevral people who say its their husdbands job what do you think is it your job your husdbands or both
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
10 Sep 08
We both do it, I usually end up doing it though. Honestly, I grew up in a house where my Dad took care of it, so in my opinion my husband should do it LOL I know that is wrong. Of course, I have found out that my Dad does a lot of stuff that most men don't: he helps my mom wash dishes every night, takes out the garbage, goes in the attic to store stuff, fixes everything in the house, takes ALL the cars to get oil changes and/or worked on, he is the only one to mow the lawn, ect.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
10 Sep 08
Does your Dad have a twin brother,LOL! Sounds like a great man! Happy My Lotting.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
yes its not very often that we hear of men helping inside other than repairs and its good that there are some out there
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 08
My hubby takes out the trash - actually it doesn't matter who; but he would take it out every evening; so it is now his job!
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
well i mean its good if he makes it a point to take it out but if its full i feel i should do it rather than wait forhim to
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
10 Sep 08
I just put the garbage bag in front of the door. When he goes out, he will take it with him, LOL. Don't even need to ask.LOL
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
10 Sep 08
We both take it to the trash can.I have a trash basket in the kitchen & we both take it out,which ever one sees its full..As far taking it out to the road for the trash truck to pick up,usually always my husbands does that part...
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
its the same way with me although i will carry it to the road mainly cause the anmials i dont want it everywhere
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
10 Sep 08
So if the husband falls behind on the job and the trash fills up, does it lead to arguing? nagging? or do they just let it pile up? lol At our home, it's both of us, whoever sees it's full takes it out. It's no big deal and only takes a couple of minutes out of the day. But, he also does the dishes or helps out in other ways around here too. And I do know how to take care of the yard and vehicles. So it works out pretty even around here.
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@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
that is a great point why not stop the fighting and work together i too help with outside things and feel its good if you work together to accomplish thing
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
10 Sep 08
I am just lazy,lol! I want the man to do it. This is the one of the only things we women have left. We could at least still be a women a little bit. Take care.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
10 Sep 08
Yes we do, but we do it out of love. So, it is not to bad. They can at least take out the garbage,LOL. Happy My Lotting.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
11 Sep 08
yes you are right even though i have alot or responsiblitys i wouldnt trade them for anything
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@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
you know it doesnt seem that uncommon for people to say that and you are right we do have a lot of responsabitys
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10 Sep 08
In our house we both do it - whoever sees it full.
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@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
yes that is the way we do it it would be wrong for me to leave it sitting overflowing just because he isnt home to do it
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
10 Sep 08
thursday nights are take out the trash nights at our house and everybody has to help including out 2 daughters as well, so i dont think that taking out the garbage is for necessarily for a man to do. who cares who does it as long as it gets done?
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
10 Sep 08
thats good that your kids help now they will know its not only one person job to do it
• United States
10 Sep 08
I think its whoever notices that the trash needs to be taken out lol
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
11 Sep 08
yes i dont understand what the sense in living a nasty trash can full just because it is you husdbands job so that is why i as well think its a mutual thing
• United States
10 Sep 08
i wouldn't say its my husbands job i am the main one who takes it out unless i set it out by the door he'll grab it and take it out to the road, i couldn't set there and look at it overflow and not take it out, so i would say its a mutal thing whoever sees it needs taken out takes it.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
11 Sep 08
yes i agree i cant see it overflowing but due to someones anmials i cant leave it outside i ahve to take it to the an or the yard will be overflowing with trash