The spy who loved me
By pinkpassion5
@pinkpassion5 (351)
September 10, 2008 2:25pm CST
I read an interesting article earlier today about men and women who spy on their spouses. "Couples who spy on each other rarely stay together."
Do you find you check your partners email, other online accounts or cell? If I had to resort to checking up on my husband I'd leave the relationship. If my gut feeling is that he maybe cheating why would I stay? I wouldn't put myself through that agony of always wondering. I've been there in the past and would not go through it again. Life is just to short.
2 responses
@zykon84 (165)
• Portugal
10 Sep 08
first of all the main of any relationship is trusting between "members".
I can´t imagine myself spy my girlfriend, altougth she is with me, she still have is personal life, and i dont need to now everything. we must be honest.
If we start with this kind of pursuit, in a near future, the relation will end
@pinkpassion5 (351)
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10 Sep 08
Yes I agree. If there is no trust the relationship is already in trouble. I feel the same way. My husbands life didn't start with just me and it isn't going to end with me. He is free to have friendships with whom ever he chooses. I trust him and it's the same for him. It's great being in a marriage where trust is not an issue.
@medney1988 (560)
• United States
10 Sep 08
If you ever get to a point where you feel the need to spy that's when you should realize that it's over. obviously you can't trust them and that's the number one thing. some people have reasons to spy but instead of spying they should just dump the person. too much time on a wasted effort. there are some girls who just feel the need to spy because they don't trust anyone and they just need help.
