Could you still be there friend

United States
September 10, 2008 4:08pm CST
If your best friend took your man from you. If she/he were the reason that the two of you broke up would you still be able to maintain a friendship with them. I never had this happen to me, but I don't know what I'd do. I probably wouldn't be able to remain friends with her because I'd be too hurt by it and I wouldn't be able to trust her.
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@jackiew (915)
• Canada
4 Oct 08
i would not be able to remain friends with either one of them.I don't believe she was a friend to start with if she could do such a thing.How would you be able to have trust.If she took your man once she would do it again as far as i am concerned.With friends like that you don't need enemies.
@kymommy72 (588)
• United States
23 Sep 08
There is no way I could be best friends with someone who stole my husband from me. To me a best friend is someone who is always there for you, who has your back all the time, someone trust without question. I love my best friend and she loves me. You can't love someone and do something that would hurt them so much. I would never be able to trust her again. And also how could I be around her? How could I hang out with her and my man who is now her boyfriend? I would all be too painful for me.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
10 Sep 08
I've had it done to me in elementary school, but at that age it didn't really bother me. If a friend would do that to me now that would be the end of our friendship. I couldn't feel comfortable around her any more. I would always be thinking about what she did and be hurt. And I would always worry that it would happen again.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
11 Sep 08
If it would be my best friend who have the fault on why do my Boyfriend/Girlfriend have broke up then I have to think of many as a hundred of times and both of them do not deserve to be a friend of mine for they cannot be trusted and I think there is also consequences that it is the Man who fall in love with your friend and maybe this is the real things that happened behind you and if it would happened then probably you have to open for this side of the things it is not the woman faults but also to your Boyfriend that cannot be trusted......
@joski15 (108)
• United States
10 Sep 08
You still could be firends i just dont know how good you two would get along. But if you feel different i guess its up to you to make that choice.