She killed her sons and she called it Love!?

Philippines
September 10, 2008 6:23pm CST
Hi Myloters, I read this on the news in Australian website probably three or four months ago and I cant believe this. This woman was a nurse and she have 2 sons, if I am not wrong the sons age was 9 and 7. Before she killed them she let theme take a drug first so they fall asleep then she struggle theme. When she was questioned why she did that she said that was because she love so much her sons and she want theme to be free from more hardship in life. I cant believe this! I mean you maybe the mother of your child but don't forget that since the day that child was born you have no right to the life of that child instead you have responsibility to make that child's life better. To make decisions to somebody's life is wrong and the only person who can decide wither he/she want to die to free her/himself from hard life is that actual person. Do you think my believe make since? Tell me if I a wrong as I think this is quite unreal situation. Thank you for your time myloters. Happy Myloting
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17 responses
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
her depressions already overcame her sanity that was why she had the guts to do that. she could have at least get her children adopted by other families who can take care of them and give them a better future instead of taking away their lives if she really can't handle them anymore.
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Having to decide for the life of others is wrong. Maybe the mother is facing the hardest time of her life and that she doesn't want those kids to experience hardships the way she does, but still what she did is wrong. It can't even be considered as mercy killing. There are really people who can't stand life challenges, they're lack of faith and can't bear enough of those struggles. We don't own life, we just borrowed it, life isn't unfair either. It's only our natural responses to negative situations are anger, then anger followed with guilt, and guilt eventually leads to depression. We feel bad and tend to compensate our bad feelings. We bury ourselves to the thought that life isn't unfair, and we don't know how to handle difficult situations.
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I agree with you. I think if people cant handle the consequences in a relationship they should never have child at all. My point all the time is if I don't feel sorry for my self at least I make sure that I have that feelings to others. Problem with mer rage should never affect kids specially sacrificing their lives.
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
We must always remember that we don't own a perfect life. Life is what we make it. It is a gift, we must embrace it and treasure this gift, for we will not be able to have this life again if ever we lost it. There are lots of challenges and trials we face each day, they are all spices so life won't be dull and boring. At those time she bear those kids, she must first realize her situation, its better she aborted the child in her womb than let those innocent one see the beauty of this world but didn't have the chance to enjoy it.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Sep 08
It is no way acceptable. either way she can be mad, or she is something very cruel to kill the sons.its really very bad.she must me making an excuse after killing them. why then she brought them to earth then?
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I think your right. I often think actually that maybe her anger was for her husband and killed the child in revenge. Goodness me!! what kind of people can do this.
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I cannot understand any parent taking the life of their child/children, people like this are sick. If life was sooo rotten why did she not kill herself too to begin with?! That is the one thing I dont understand it makes me think that it wasnt them saving their children from pain and the pain of living. It was them not wanting to be tied down or whatever. If she felt life was so awful again why did she not kill herself too and save herself from the "hardship of life"? People like this need to rot in jail, I know some think that is harsh but if her reality was really life is to hard, why did she not do away with herself too?
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
They should stay in jail forever and never given a chance to see outside world again. Sometimes I think that this person didn't really kill the children for love, because she was a nurse and thus kind of people have more knowledge than us regarding life maybe she did that as an experiment. Christ if she did that for that reason and I am a relatives I'll shoot her in the head.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I agree with you.. That mother don't have the right to killed her won child even though she's the one who give life to them.. No mother has a right to end the life of their children.. I don't think that she's in the right mind.. Maybe, she had a problem that is why she did that kind of action.. I guess she needs to undergo psychiatrist for her to realize very well what have she done..
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Your right she might need that kind of treatment. I just hope that when she realize it it don't hurt her too much and end up killing herself too even though I think people like this should be shoot in a head. I think people should pay for what they have done in a right way but I always think that killing is not the answer.
• United States
10 Sep 08
Killing someone is not a sign of love. How can you decided when someone should die? How does she know what type of life those kids may have had? They could have been succesful members of society. Maybe they could deal with hardships better than she could. That woman had no right to decide that for those children. It's sad.
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
You are right, until now when I remember that news I feels very sad because me myself would like to have a child soon but for some reason I cant. If somebody would give me a child I would accept it though with my widely open heart.
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I don't know if you can call that out love or selfishness. Selfishness because you she doesn't want her children to experience life as should be . I mean she became selfish in giving her children much deserve life . I don't believe that she loves them no one can do such horrible things because of love. A lot of people are doing that i mean killing even in our country there were cases like that and mistaken that for love also . too bad.
• United States
11 Sep 08
That is totally cruel. I don't understand and I guess I could never understand why a mother or a father would kill their own children. And it is horrible that she would say that she loved them is the reason for killing them. If she loved them she wouldn't have killed them at all.
• Singapore
11 Sep 08
I guessed she is stressed out from the weight of her work load. Her sadistic mind have over-powered her kind and gentle side which causes her to go insane and kill her sons. After all, she was the one who had successfully allowed their sons to see the world. See Earth. Maybe she got the concept of love wrongly. I used to hear from parents who hits their child to lecture them : " If i scold you, means I dote you. If I hit you means I love you ". That is when parents tell their children to learn the good things. Maybe she had over do her affections for her children and not realising her strength hadbadly damaged them.
• United States
11 Sep 08
I would have to say that I agree. I don't believe that choosing to kill someone because of what you believe is right. I suppose she was going through some tough times and I know that doesn't excuse it but it makes you wonder who really influenced her choice. Was it all her idea alone... or was it one of her friends or workers who had mentioned something like this that kind of pushed her to the edge? I mean it the end it was her choice... but it makes you think about things in a different light.
• China
11 Sep 08
it is a terrible thing, and happen in here too, i don't know why they are so brutal, they are all psychopathic. maybe the life is so hard, that she couldn't stand herself, and she thinks too heavy to carry on, so she did that. life, struggling for life,that every human do.
• United States
11 Sep 08
That is stupid. If you love someone alot you wouldnt kill them. Children are the most innocent and if you kill them you will never be able to show your love, i think thats stupid and sad. how can you go upon and kill a child??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
• Israel
11 Sep 08
She is obviously a very sick woman.
• China
11 Sep 08
I think that woman is insane.How could she do this to her sons,i can not understand,her thoughts is so strange.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
10 Sep 08
yes I don't understand peoples thinking, they must be so twisted in their minds, and there seems to be so much of this sort of thing going on usually because they can't handle their ex partners from having custody, I really don't know how parents can kill their own children there must be something wrong with these people...
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I understand what she was trying to do at the time. She has a skewed perspective and she thinks that life is always just a ride of horror, shame, and sadness. She does not see any good in life at all. She was trying to get rid of the pain they would feel when they grew up and saw the bad things that go on in this world, but she doesn't get the big picture. There are not only troubles in this world, but she must have had such a horrible life that she could not think any differently. I understand why she did that and I believe she really did love her children, but she was misguided, unfortunately!
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Obviously she is not in the right mind when she did it. No normal person would kill children. People who are actually experiencing so much stress and depression could turn into an insane person. They will lost there sanity and they start not thinking right. She is not that strong enough to handle so much problem in the family. Perhaps shes in debt and she didnt know what to do at all. She might have no choice where to go and she loses her mind because of that. I know it is sad but some are just not capable of becoming a good mother. A lot of these people dont deserved to bear a child but unfortunately they can have a child on there own. Some people even wishes of having even one child and yet some would take for granted the blessing of bearing a child. I am disgusted too and i feel sad for those kids who had a mother as evil as she is. What is wrong can never be justified by saying you love a child so much that you spare them from hardship in life.Nobody has the right to take a childs life...wither they are still inside your womb or not.