Would you still accept him/her after dumping you for another person?

Philippines
September 10, 2008 11:08pm CST
Let say you have a bf/gf and one day he/she left you for another one. I know it hurts so much and so annoying knowing that he/she left you for another bf/gf. If he/she come back would you still accept him/her? Why and for what reason? If ever it happen to me I will accept him and I will let him taste the pain he has caused me. I am bad I know... Happy Myloting
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21 responses
• Canada
11 Sep 08
No I do not think I would take him back . I can put up with so much but not dumping me for another person . I have left my partner before and come back to him but he did not dump me for someone else it was me that left so it was different . I did go back with him after he cheated on me though so I guess unless I am in that situation , I will never know for sure .
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@amyrin (43)
• India
12 Sep 08
no,its highly impossible to accept him.if any one try to avoid us we must avoid before him.
@lemayan (188)
• Germany
11 Sep 08
no i would never accept them back, why? am not pick up the left overs of another person, and anyway how come they never thought about it when they were leaving? just because their relationship with the other person turned out bad does not mean that my world stop moving to wait for them and anyway if i accept them back what are the chances that they will not meet someone else and move on again
@Luvxoni (135)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Nope! Not at all. Why would I.... So he could do it again.
@tparring (108)
• United States
12 Sep 08
hahaha...i think I would spit in his face. And tell him that I'm not a second stringer. And then tell him to go F*** off!!! But I like what you would do better
• United States
11 Sep 08
NO!!!! They might find someone else new in a month or a year. I would not take them back!
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
That happened to me already. My recent ex (2 years ago) left me for another one but he denied it. Well anyway, I'm having a hard time answering your question. Maybe yes and maybe no. But I'll probably stick with the NO right now, as much as I'm admitting that I still love him and all, after what happened last Saturday, I don't think I'll be able to actually be with him again.
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
If i love him very much i will accept him, but if not, i wont. But regaining trust is very difficult. That's why whenever a partner leaves you for someone else, it's unlikely that you'd get back together again. You'll always think about what he has done to you and he may do it again. I personally dont believe in revenge but i do believe in bad karma. He will soon get what he deserves.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
If he's just my boyfriend i will not give him any chance, he dont deserve me. I move on with my own and if he keep on insisting i'll let him feel what is the feeling to be dump. I deserve more than him and there's no reason to accept him again, trust is not present anymore, it is just a waste of time in giving him a second chance. hurting person wants to revenge but sometimes this will destroy us...
@joy4you (641)
• India
11 Sep 08
This one is a tough one to answer, for me I think it would depend on the circumstances for leaving me, the reasons and if we separate amicably or in a bad way. It would all depend if we would be able to have the same feelings for each other if ahe got back with me. Whether I let go or take her back I would hold no grudges against that person but try to make sure I do not get hurt again.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I would'nt take him back coz theres no point of starting all over again a relationship on someone who had once ruin my trust. It is not my lost in the first place but his when he let go of me. Rejecting him would even hurt him more knowing that he lost someone worth loving. The moment i let go it means for good.There is no turning back anymore. There is no point of having a relationship with someone you know is not worthy of your love. The fact that you both let go already coz theres no reason of working things out. Then there is no reason of wasting your time trying it again when you know it will fail. Revenge for me is not a good way to make him see his mistakes it is all up to God. I know for sure he was badly hurt by somebody too and he had realized his mistakes already. And that might be the same reason why he wanted you back coz he knows your worth now.
• United States
11 Sep 08
LoL!! Thats pretty funny eve, well i guess i probably would not, definitely no, and i will simply tell them why, why should i go back to the same person who left me, i dont think i would ever do it i n my lifetime.
@jsemi11 (20)
• Spain
11 Sep 08
I would only forgive hem if she was forced to do it... Otherwise our love would not be the same, as I know she had lost interest in me.
• Malaysia
11 Sep 08
I won't accept her/ him because I will immediately find another one which is more better than her/him. Life must go on do not give up! We must think thanks God and I know that she is not the one I want and now I can find another one who is waiting for me! Is that cool?
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Sep 08
It would have been very bad for me. i will never forgive him. rather i would hate him for life. so there is no question of taking him back
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I think I wont go back and waste my time again. Its what for,for revenge,to hurt and feel the pain. I think that is rediculous if I could find someone better then him that's enough for a revenge. Well if ever that happens to me it's not my lost it's her lost. I wont even stare even at her shadow. It's enough that we part ways then having a wasted time,wasted everything. That person will just go to hell! It's not the end of the world for me. I could be better with out the person and make my life happy. Anyway have a nice day!
@relundad (2310)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I know they say never say never, so I wont. But I doubt very seriously if I would be interested in a relationship with him. I mean what does he think he can go try out something else and if he doesn't like it, come back to old reliable? NOT!
@chai37 (142)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
i agree with all of you, I too will not accept him. The fact that he left me for another person is inexcusable and he'll definitely do it again anyway so why bother going back?
@Abrynn (54)
• United States
11 Sep 08
nope never although just for pay back is a glorious idea lmao. But i would feel bad the angel on my shoulder would really be telling me off:) but in the end no i wouldnt the trust would be gone.
@reoko10 (578)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I don't know about any one else but if it were me I would not let he back in to my heart. If i've been a good women and did all the things a girlfriend should do then he should not even want to look at another girl. But some how he had the time to hook up with a girl and get so close that he left you for her. There is know way I would let him back in because there is know way to tell if another pretty girls go's walking by that he wont leave me for that one. You know I just don't wont to have to worry about it all the time.