Do You Speak More Than YOu Should And Can Not Control That Also ?ohhh what to do

@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
September 11, 2008 1:46am CST
Some Time I think I am speaking more than I should .....but still I can not control myself and end up with big troubles ...... Later I think why I was not able to control my self and get sad ... What to do with such problems .... Thanks Ganesh
4 responses
@chai37 (142)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
that's natural...there's nothing to worry about. I always do that specially when i'm nervous and when i'm meeting new people. I'm like chandler (of friends)who talks too much when i'm nervous. sometimes, i hear myself talking non sense and i hate it. I just stop myself and keep quiet or think of something else to talk about to redeem myself or if that didn't work I just move away...far...far away....haha.
11 Sep 08
Hi Ganesh44, Its just one of those things, we all done that letting our mopths run away before our brains, we learn by our mistakes and learn to hold our tonge, think berfore we speak and we won't have any problems. Tamara
• United States
11 Sep 08
I know where you are coming from. I have the problem of speaking before i think. I can't contol it. I have a big mouth and a lot of times i say things completely differnt than the intended outcome, however, it does make a very blunt person, a no BS'er. If there was a way i could control mine, i dont know if i would. I enjoy it because you don't have bottled up emotions you say what you mean when you need to. I know that a lot of people keep it in, i am not that type. good luck finding a solution.
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I sometimes become a tactless person plus being frank to somebosy.. I end up hurting their feelings but I apologized as soon as possible... Think first before you speak.. if it will hurt or not... if it will contribute to the topic or not... think of how pwople around you will accept your wordings and how they will interpret it.. but take time to elaborate your thought to them as they would undersatnd you... I hope I helped you..