"Homeschooling is best"

@rocketj1 (6955)
United States
September 11, 2008 12:51pm CST
My kids are not homeschooled (taught by the parents at home --- for those of you who are not familiar with this). They attend public school. In the area of America that I come from, homeschooling is very popular. Maybe even too popular. Some of these parents are very critical of those who do not do as they do. This is especially evident in legalistic Christian Churches. What do you think of Homeschooling your kids? Is there anyone out there who does this with their own children? Fill me in.
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4 responses
• United States
11 Sep 08
i have thought about it before but i would never homeschool my kids in my opinion they need to be around kids their own age and make friends.plus there is sports,prom,and etc..i wouldn't want my kids to be sheltered from real life.my parents took me out of school in the 10th grade and tried to homeschool me because i got in too much trouble but that didn't work i got worse and quit school which now i do have my ged but the point is if they aren't out in the world they'll never learn from their own mistakes because they'll never have experiences being stuck at home being schooled
@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
12 Sep 08
That's a good argument for the other side of the issue. I can't help but think that other factors could play into the equation too. Maybe if a child had some other social outlets such as community sports or kids church clubs etc. But I do agree that a child needs other kids their age around. Thanks:)
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• United States
21 Sep 08
Most kids who are home schooled get plenty of socialization, contrary to what people believe. For starters, most are with different age groups - from babies to adults - and learn to deal with everyone. When we lived in Florida, my son was in the Florida boy choir - with 80 boys from 4th through 8th grade. We were part of a home school group that met every week for phys. ed and team sports. That group also met for field trips - usually once a week as well. Plus, we hired a Spanish teacher to teach our kids. There were about 25 kids who participated. In many states now, kids can particpate in public school sports. Plus in many areas, they are allowed to have dual enrollment - both home schooling and public school in case there is a need for science labs, for instance. (Also some schools allow home schoolers to use the labs and study on their own.) We tend to think that public school is the "normal" way to teach, but it wasn't always so. There are many famous people who were home schooled throughout out history. Or who had private tutors.
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@lkoenig07 (289)
• United States
22 Sep 08
My husband & I both agreed that our kids will be homeschooled. He was homeschooled his whole life, and they have great programs where you can bring the kids together for sports, highschool classes, etc.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
22 Sep 08
It's very interesting that your husband was homeschooled all the way through school. He would definitely have a different perspective on the matter that the average person would! Thanks:)
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I home schooled my son from 4th through 12th grade, and it was the best thing for him. I don't regret it at all. When he was kindergarten age, his preschool visited the school where he would attend. What I discovered was amazingly stupid. There were 4 "pods" - classrooms - in one room, with only partions separating them. It was chaotic for me, and I was an adult! While sitting in one pod, you could hear and see what was going on in the others. Eighty kindergarteners were in one large room, separated into 4 classes. That didn't impress me at all. Then I discovered that because we were 1.8 miles (and not over 2 miles) from the school, he would have to walk. Parents were not allowed to drive their kids onto the school grounds. Walking would mean that he had to cross a huge intersection - where there were 6 lanes going north/south and 4 going east/west. There was no crossing guard because there were not enough kids to justify the cost. And parents were not allowed to help any kids other than their own cross the street. My son taught himself to read before he was 3, and when I talked with the school district, I learned that he would not be tested for giftedness until after he was finished with 2nd grade. I knew that by then my son would either hate school or have gotten in lots of trouble. Especially since they insisted he would have to be totally reprogrammed to learn to read the "right" way. We found an excellent private school, designed much like the old one-room-schoolhouses. Kindergarten through second graders were in one room, but it was not chaotic like the public school situation. My son could socialize with the other kindergarteners, but read with the second graders. It was perfect. Or so we thought. Turned out that since we were the "wrong" Christian denomination, they prayed for my son and his parents (me and my ex!) and his grandparents, even his pastor, every morning. Not acceptable. He was there for kindergarten and first grade before we realized this. He spent 2nd grade in another wonderful private school. But it closed after he finished 2nd grade. Next he was in a Montessori school for 3rd grade. Unfortunately, the owner/director was searching for her own spiritual path and introducing the kids to everything as she went along. They learned about magnet therapy, crystals, yoga, hinduism, buddhism. Learning about them isn't a bad thing. But as the director changed here idea of what was right, she got angry if the kids didn't embrace her newfound religion or thought process. So...come 4th grade, I checked out the public school system again and discovered that our state was ranked 49th out of 50 at the time. And our county was one of the worst in the state. So, we started home schooling. When we moved to another state a few years later, we continued home schooling. My son could have finished his education about 2 years earlier than others his age, because he sped through the lessons. But I insisted that he slow down the pace and be a kid as well. In about 8th or 9th grade, he wasn't thrilled about home schooling. But when he realized what doo-doo his friends went through in public schools, he liked being home schooled. And now, at age 24, he says that if he ever has kids of his own, he will also home school. (Or unschool...as many home schoolers are doing now.)
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Wow! An open classroom is something I would have not been happy about either. And I can't believe that you couldn't drive you children to school either. I think I would have made the choices you did if I were in the same situation. Did your son go to college? How was that transistion for him? Thank you so much for sharing your expertise with me! That was awesome!:)
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• United States
22 Sep 08
i really wish i was smarter and more structured- i would love to homeschool my kids. the hubby would never go for that, though. i would like to send them to a christian school, though. our church has a school that i would like them to attend, but my husband is not too fond of that idea, either. he is not against the christian education or anything, he just has the same arguments as above- they would not be able to attend prom, play sports, etc. which i don't agree with but whatever- we will see.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Yes, you need to try to agree on something as important as education. Thanks:)