What would you do in this situation?

United States
September 12, 2008 9:46am CST
I was walking in a convenient store and I heard this couple arguing. The next thing I know it was a lot of noise and I saw the woman on the floor on top of the chip rack. He hit her and knocked her down! I was so shocked I didn't know what to do. This guy was huge too and she was so tiny. He yelled at her to get up and let's go and she was so embarrassed as she hurried out the store into the car. My phone was on my purse and I wanted to call the police but they were already riding off and would have been long gone by the time they got there. What do you do in a situation like that?
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@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
12 Sep 08
If you are willing to sign a statement to what you saw and then go into court and tell what you saw just get the tag number off the car they drove off in and give it to the police. They will do the rest. They would get a warrant and the man would go to jail. In this case the wife has nothing to say about it.
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• United States
12 Sep 08
I didn't know that. I thought the wife had to file a complaint against him and it would be my word against hers. Thanks for the post.
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
12 Sep 08
This happened in a public place and anyone that observed it can file a complaint.
@ORichBoi (66)
• United States
12 Sep 08
That's a crazy situation! I love my wife and would never think about putting my hands on her but if I saw something like that I would definitely call the police, get their tag number and file a report. There is no excuse for that behavior at all.
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• United States
12 Sep 08
You're right, there is no excuse for that at all. Thanks for the post.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
12 Sep 08
Well like you m not a Social Welfare or Social carer, Let people kill hit and die!
• United States
12 Sep 08
I definitely wouldn't want her to die. That's terrible.
@sabbatha (287)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Would have called the cops anyway, but not from anywhere near them. If they stayed in the store I would have gone outside, if they left I would have tried to get the liscence plate and called. But I wouldn't have interfered with them in any way shape or form directly. Domestic abuse is the worse thing to get into the middle of. My uncle is a cop and says that most cops that get hurt or killed, do so when they respond to domestic abuse calls. Of course it probably wouldn't help calling the cops since most of the time the woman defend the man and don't leave. But I like to think that if people do take the time to interfere, such as calling the cops when something happens, then maybe the people being abused may someday come to their senses.
• United States
12 Sep 08
I never knew that statistic about police officers and domestic abuse. That's crazy. You would think it would be in a shoot out or something like that. I guess I now know, God forbid, if this ever happens again what to do. Thanks for the post.
• China
12 Sep 08
i think don't do anything at that time. that's not mean we didn't help her, in opposite way we do a favor for her. because she was in the public, if she was really in danger,she may ask for someone's help. if someone help her at that time, that man will be enraged, even now he don't hit her in this place, he will hurt her at another place. when this thing happen, the only one can help her it herself. and hope all the woman don't be so flabby sometimes.
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• United States
12 Sep 08
I agree with that. Ultimately it's up to the person to decide to get help but at the same time its sad to see someone get hit like that. Maybe she was afraid to stand up for herself.
@savmot (261)
12 Sep 08
I'd probably do nothing, because I've spent too much time thinking about what to do, and then afterwards think of all these great things I should have done or said.....
• United States
12 Sep 08
I know. My mind was racing and after it was over I thought about possibly being a "hero" and helping her but then what if he would have hit me? Then I would have been on top of the candy bars looking at her on the chips and it would have not been a good situation. It's sad that it happened though. Thanks for posting.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
That was really rude of him to do that. probably at that very instant I would froze to because of that incident. It is not normal for people to really do that especially in public. What would I do, since it happened in a nick of time and the two had left there is nothing much to do in that situation. Hopefully, if you would see them again doing the same thing probably you could do what you've planned to do.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
9 Oct 08
the woman is being abused by the man, that is how he has been dealing with her right from home, in such a case you don't say anything because they are not close to you, they are just customers. The woman is in hell, that is what most women suffer in the hands of men. Some men hate their wife either because they have someone else as girl friend or they want the woman to leave them. i have seen such a couple that settles all the scores with fight and blows. infact, it is awkward!
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
9 Oct 08
oh my goodness this is so disgusting. i cannot accept a man raising his hand against a woman. size does play a part but it doesn't make it acceptable even if the woman is bigger than the man. this is worst coz the guy is huge and the woman is small. i don't know what is the culture in your country so i can't really comment. but if it happens in my country, i'll try to stop the guy and call the police. it is bad enough to be abused in a marriage. it's worse when the abusive partner find it alright to do it in public. i can't imagine what he does to her when they are at home. :(