have you felt the feeling of being unwanted?

Philippines
September 12, 2008 10:24am CST
people love to belong and not to be a guy unwanted,but we feel it sometimes from the people we loved, from our friends we used to hang out with, from the people we work with and its not doing good for you.have you been through this feeling before, tell me what happen...
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@esphyka (158)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
yeah before... i thought they don't care about me and turn my back to them and be with my friends... but i was wrong friends won't always be there... but family do.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
12 Sep 08
I've not only felt it but have been told and shown it by the ppl who didnt want me...That would be my mother and her now ex husband...Ended up they kicked me out at the age of 13 yrs/old when they were told from their lawyer that even if they were to "divorce" from me (emancipate *sp*) they'd still be finacially responsible for me until the age of 18...so they kicked me out instead....I'd say thats a pretty good indication that one isnt wanted or loved LOL
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@ibiswas (422)
• India
18 Sep 08
Hi Arnold, I have felt unwanted sometimes in my life, but I cannot satisfy everyone and keep them happy. There are times when I know that people try to make me feel unwanted intentionally, the best technique to handle such situations is to keep away from such people. It does not hurt your self-respect and avoids from feeling low. I believe in keep myself happy so that I can keep my loved and dear ones happy too :-) Happy MyLotting.....
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
yes i feel that all the time in class. it's really sad but i can't please everybody so i guess i just have to accept how they see me and prove them wrong once they get to know me more.;-)
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13 Sep 08
yes i have felt being unwanted a lot of times already even to my group of friends. sometimes, it's either i misinterpret what they do or they misinterpret what i do. but in the end, we clear things up and accept each other.
• India
12 Sep 08
Yea dude i hav been in this kind of situation many times .I am often accustomed 2 this felling of being unwanted and i can tell u dis that i feel very sad aswell as angry. When i get unwanted i think what did i do 2 deserve dis,is somthing wrng with me or is it the other person around .But i could never find the real answer so for the tim being i dont really care of being unwanted and i always try 2 bring somthing new in myself fr which i get acknowledged and this is it
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Yes I do get that feeling once in a while. I have felt that way during my life about not feeling wanted. It is hard to feel this way sometimes. I try to be a good person and friend but sometimes feel like I am not appreciated. I don't want anything but some true friendship. It is not important what people have it is just there time and attention. But sometimes I feel like I can't get attention. It is just something I deal with from time to time.