Yes, I do love you but...
By klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
Indonesia
September 13, 2008 4:15am CST
Sometimes in our relationship we stuck in the same situation. It is sometimes so hard to handle when your partner never want to change the bad habit. They know it is wrong and they said they want to change it, but it was only promises without realization. In fact, everything went worse after you confront it to them.
It is just like: "Yeah, baby, I love you but it is just too hard to handle and I don't know how long I can take this" :(
yes it is sad.
And now, I am so confused about this feeling, I really am :(
2 responses
@satish_kumar (84)
• India
13 Sep 08
Every persons have some habits which are not like his/her partner. But still we have bear that, just think why, may be so other good habits with are we like, may be love which we have, so dear so many factors in the life which are the reason we are leaving together. So take it cool & try to realize you partner your love affection so that life partner can change him/her self.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 08
Yes, I used to think that way. It is not about the annoying habit that everyone should be able to deal, it is a destructing habit where it would destruct either one of us or both of us. There would be no win-win solution unless the destruction that come from inside is demolished. I believe one day she would be able to do that, but how long should I wait? I mean, it's been a long time, and I think my patience has come to the limit.
sorry for being so much ranting... I just can't take this anymore LOL
@rainmark (4302)
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13 Sep 08
Yes that really hapopens in one relationship , there's always the word "but". Men and woman are the same. SOmetimes each of us have a bad habbit that hard to stop, hard to quit from it. My husband said he loves me "but" he hates me when im in my moods, i can't help with it.When im moody i can't avoid it. It's just happened and hard to handle it.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 08
Yes, I think you understand the basic problem. But, it is not that simple. The bad habit is not about something annoying and something that could make you upset. But it is a destructive habit and I don't like it. I abhor it and I want it to stop, not because it annoys me but it destructs them. How would someone deal with a destructive relationship?
Yes I do, I do love her, but then again, how would I take something so hard to handle?
Thank you for your participation. Your answer make me relieved a little :)
