will you sacrifice your true love for your parents..???

True love is lucky to hit you once in your life. Who are you living for yourself or your parents. Just because your parents give you life doesn't mean they own your life. Follow your heart, it won't never lie to you, if you don't lie to yourself.

Well I think it will weigh on your part which of the two will make you happier in life. For me, as a parent you would not let your children not to be happy in life. Discern in yourself why they think the guy is not for you? Maybe they have reasons behind why? On the other side of things try to look why not make up for the things that your parents want to see in him for them to accept your BF. That way you will be in a win-win situation with everybody. Make both of them happy and you will be more happier person if you can do that yourself.

[i]Hi praj, When I am in this situation, I will try my very best for the two parties to be closer also to each other, whatever means I will do just for them to respect my feelings! Anyway, I hate to choose and I am not in this situation but if ever.......I will be choosing my parents when they have valid reasons for not liking my man and if they don't have, I will talk to them heart to heart and let them understand how lovable my true love is![/i]

I would explain my feelings to my parents, and let them know that they needed to respect my descion on who I wanted to be with. My parents love my fiance so I kind of lucked out with this situation. I think a person should always follow their heart, or they will regret their descion later on.

Well I don't love my father so much I see him very rarely, but I love my mother much. So half half :p

Personally, I'd wait until my parents get agreed.

This happened to me when I was only 18. I did not love the guy yet but he was surely fun to be with. I chose him. I still lived at home with my parents without any problems and went out with him in the evenings. It took my parents 5 years to accept him and that was because I told them I am getting married. They have a good relationship now. I have been married for 10 years! In my opinion, if your true love is harmless and respectable, it is not worthed to sacrifice him/her for your parents. After all they have chosen eachother without anyone's consent. So that is what I did, and I don't regret a single day. Parents may love you and may have taken care of you for all your life but sometimes they just over protect you without even truly knowing your partner.

I would never give up the person I loved to please my parents . They chose who they wanted to be with in life and they would have no right to choose who I wanted to be with . They would not be the one's who had to live with the person I chose and one is lucky in life to find one true love without having to go look for another one and if we had to please everyone we would never experience the love and happiness of a spouse or mate for the simple fact that someone would always be unhappy with who you chose . This is why we are all different in live as it would be a pretty boring place if everyone liked the same person .

Well I think their is a right time with everything.If I were in that situation I rather just be with me first and really think.I just rather be alone for the mean time. It's very hard just to decide for a night,it will take time and I wont be indecisive about it,that I have to be careful with my decision,cause it's my life that is in stake,and I just don't want it to be complicated. If I am independent, it means I can support myself and I am very sure that my bf loves me and willing to prove to me and to my parents to support me all the way why not. But if my parents are supporting me and I am still in their house well that is different,their are rules that I have to follow and it's a must cause I am staying with them,if my bf loves me he will understand and could really wait for the proper time. If it's really worth my love he could wait. If that person loves me he will prove it to my parents also that he love me. It's just a matter of time no matter if it will take years. Even were chilren we have a life to make,choices to make if we can stand up on our own even in the end it was a mistake they can't blame ua cause we also have our own life. They wont be their always,nothing is permanent but only your self,and we learned life the hard way. Have a nice day!

not me but my boyfriend he was only the son of his parents he knew that his parents willnot agree for our marriage so hewanted us to seprate he did not even told about us to his parents todays we both are married but he is happy in his life but not me my lifewas realy full of problems we stilltalk to each other on but rarely

your parents will always be your parents,(God bless them) and they will always try to guide you in the right direction (well mine often said so)even when it is not your direction but theirs, dont get me wrong, they are probably trying to do whats best for you, but the question still remains, are you happy and if you are, you should ask yourself what is it that your parents see in this other person that they do not like? is it logical? ( what they dont like) do you see it too and does it bother you? if it does not then go on with your life your parents will definately let it be after sometime, but if it does listen to them because a person inlove doesnt know clearly see the whole picture.

Im actually in this situation now...My parents hate him but however i dont. WHat matters is how i feel,Yes i care about what my parents feel but its not there life to judge me on who i want to be with. The way i see it is they lived there life and now its my turn to live my life. They dont have to like each other just need to get along when they see each other. They dont have to talk to one another or anything. My mother is the worst at it right now however like i told her if you trust me and love me then let me love who i want to not who you want me too.

I think it depends on the situation. Given the situation, like, if am still studying and my parents are the one providing all my financial needs, then I have no choice but to stick to finish my studies and be with my parents. But if the boyfriend can provide and can finance my studies, then I will choose my boyfriend. But if I am already providing for myself and my parents are getting in between me and my boyfriend, then I have to tell my parents to be a parent not to contradict my life. It depends....and it depends. Try to weigh the situation in front of you. The chance to get a degree will just come once in a lifetime. If the person you love doesn't accept your priority in life, then he's not worth being with. Because on top of your priority list is yourself. Then others. Make something out of yourself then choose who weighs more in your life. If you're dependent still to your parents, be prepared to face financial obligation if you choose your boyfriend. Make wise decision. Opportunity comes once in a blue moon. Take it. Live it. Enjoy life. Good luck.

i once experienced the same set up until now. My parents are really against my present boyfriend, then. But now i guess its okay with them already. for some lame reasons, they just did not like him. so the ever-loving-girlfiend as i am i stuck with my boyfriend. It did not really came to that point of having to choose between them or him. it just that i get hurt when they say a lot of bad things about him that i would really defend him and would end up as me vs them. now i think they're okay with it cos they see that i am really happy with him. and i guess that's what made them stopped bugging me about him and saying negative stuffs about him...

I wouldn't sacrifice anyone of them. If this love is true and deep I will fight for our love and assure my parents that my love for them is strong and cannot be broken but I found someone..someone I love and this is what I want and not because you don't like this guy will I not be with him but please give him a chance to prove himself.

I would do what my heart tells me to do. I went against my parents when I married my ex-husband. Okay...so it didn't work out. But I have 3 beautiful children from the marraige and though we are no longer married, we have a healthy respect for one another. However, I'm not sure where you are from or what culture you are so circumstances may be different taking those factors into consideration. In my culture, it is not unusual and parents usually come to accept their children's choices in relationships once they are adults.

This is a very common problem we might face in our relationship. I think first of all I will discuss with my parents on reasons why they don't like my boyfriend. Next,if the reasons are something related to his weak points,if he is willing,I will ask him to change to please my parents. But if he is really cannot bear with my parents,I will consider just leave him. In other case,if my parents have some misunderstandings towards my boyfriend,I will explain to them. To conclude,I will always follow my parents' words. I think is hard to carry on with a guy whom your parents don't like to the end of the life.

This is a dilema which most youth face. some who are courageous to rebel, take the plunge and leave home for love, others who cannot muster up the courage forego their love and stay with their parents. More often than not those who leave home, sooner or later repent and those who stick at home reconcile and realise later that it really was not true love. Few are thwee who leave ha=omeand are really happy and soonparents too reconcile and the distance is brideged.

Yas I sacrifice my luv for my family !

yes i will sacrifice for my true love for my parents because they have done many things for me