If you're divorced with kids, should you date?

@tthom64 (535)
United States
September 16, 2008 10:31pm CST
If you get a divorce after having kids, do you think you should wait until they are grown to date again, or is it alright to just start dating whenever YOU are ready?
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3 responses
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
i will wait for them to grow a little bit and when i think im ready to date again...its really hard to tell for now but i prefer not to date until kids get older...i will give them the chance to enjoy our moments together..i love them so much that i can live without a man but i could never live without them in my life.
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
17 Sep 08
I think you should date whenever YOU are ready, but, you should not introduce the people you date to your children until you are sure that you are serious about the relationship.
• United States
17 Sep 08
I think its okay to start dating when you are ready. I have a recently divorced friend and he started dating too soon. His new gf moved in after 2 months his marriage was after 12 years. And of course that relationship did not last. I think it was just rebound to him. A divorced/separated person deserves to have someone in their life. Divorce is not the end of the world. I don't think that people should move too fast...its not good to bring too many men or women into the lives of kids either.