When does a girl becomes a women?

India
September 17, 2008 12:06am CST
What time/age/situation/circumstances do you think a girl becomes a women or for that matter a boy becomes a man?? I heard this question posed to one of the college girl during freshers day function and i began to ponder on this question and would like to know what are your views. Please share Thank you
4 responses
@Lee_Rites (845)
• United States
17 Sep 08
I don't think there is any one time that every little girl becomes a woman. Different events affect people differently. I think there is a long road we each take to get where we are going. For me, I believe I truly became a woman when I had my first son. But to say that you are not a woman until you have a child would leave out a lot of women who never have children.
• India
19 Sep 08
Thnk you u sharing.For me i think i matured when i got into a relationship and understood wat it was all about..the sharing, giving and taking
@luckywolf (154)
• China
17 Sep 08
in my opinion, girl or women boy or man ,is the same question. so the answer comes up,when do you call the boy as a man? i think ,the difference between them ,is the feeling of responsbility and obligation. the children wound never mind of that,but as an adult,you can't leave and foget it. once i was for a bussiness journey alone,i slept alone in the hotel,when the light turned off,i closed my eyes ,but i didn't feel sleepy,all in my mind was the data i brought with me ,and the equipments. compared whit a little time ago ,having tour with my family, all my care in the hotel was the food i ate,the bed i slept on,and i realized a man should burdened more.
• India
19 Sep 08
yes i think im getting a clearer picture now..responsibility is the word.Thanks for sharing
• India
19 Sep 08
Yes i also have this doubt but it is India i don't know to whom i want to ask it no one will give replay here for that matters that's i was kept it in mind. Then you was ask here i was reading the replays of you.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 08
I often heard a joke: "When a girl becomes a woman, boy will be boy" is that mean that a boy would never grow up? I think a girl would become a woman not based on time age or circumstances, but it is more to the maturity of the person herself. If she is mature enough she would be a woman and not a girl anymore. I am 22 but some people still regard me as a girl because they think that I don't have any responsibility for my life. They think that I don't have the quality of becoming a woman. But my friend has got married two years ago, and she is a woman indeed. You can see by the way she talks and she acts, she is no longer like me, she drop all the fun for more responsibility for her family and for herself.
• India
19 Sep 08
ya they say that women mature faster than men and i too agree to that front to some extend as some men my age are still very immature that i still call them "boy" eh!.thanks for sharing and ahave a nice day