Long going arguments in family

Do not argue is the solution. Some people develops the habit of arguing on any thing they are asked for to do. I do not think and each time you ask your son or other member in the family to perform some thing and they starting arguing before doing and performing. Such an tendency in the families turned some times family troubles which spoils the relations and cause the disrespect to the elders.

rkrish, Your words leave out so much... Is this an issue you can sit down and deal with as adults? Or is it something that would be "best left un-said" and you all just get on with your life and "let it go"? I have 6 siblings and we never see eye-to-eye. They go their way and do their own thing and some of them are the biggest gossips in the town I live in. I learned along time ago that people who gossip can never be trusted. For that reason, I avoid 2 of my sisters completely. Sure, I love them and see them from time to time...but I don't like their ways and have told them so. Think about what these arguments are really about and you may find an easier way to deal with them. Good luck!

I really don't know as there is one going on my extended family (aunts, grandmother) an aunt of mine was very jealous of me and my siblings so she often says negative things about us, and when my sister was fed up, she said negative things about them too, then the war erupted, being a rebellious kid back then, they all thought I started it, well in fact I just want them to know my kids and feel the happiness I had with my kids, so there the war is still not over, but they were quiet now or maybe turning green with envy, after all who would not envy this kids?