How long does it take you to get over someone?

@shamzy18 (2316)
September 17, 2008 3:59am CST
How long does it take you to get over someone? For some i takes days and some even months!! How long does it take you to get over that special someone that you lost or left?
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
This is a tough question. There are just some people that you can't get over no matter how hard you try. There was a time when my fiance and I broke up (that was during our first few years.) We were away from each other for how many months but for some reason we could not forget each other. I kept coming back to him, looking for him. I couldn't get over him no matter how hard I tried. I'm thankful though that I did not. I guess God had a reason. We'll be five years by March next year... and we'll be getting married December of next year as well... So there. I guess you can say, I never really got over him.
@shamzy18 (2316)
17 Sep 08
That is so true, especially your first! wow when i read the fiance part i thought that was the end of that relationship!! but im glad to hear that you are getting settled wih him now!! everything worked out in the end!! and yeah lol thats true you never did get over him.
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
Its really hard especially if you really love the person. I experienced this on my own. I was so depressed and I locked myself literally and to others. It was as if, the world ended for me. Until a friend told me to change my gameplan. I finally realize that there people who love me the most and there are persons more deserving of my love. I had to be strong, love myself more and hope that I will find that person. And I did!. Now I'm living a life of no regrets.
@shamzy18 (2316)
17 Sep 08
Yeah most people get depressed i know i do lol. i shut myself out from people too even when it is just something like getting bad results lol. but there is no point thinking about the one who has left your life since they arent going to be in it anymore your just going to have to forget about them. congratulations on finding someone new glad you got over that person and found some one new everything happens for a reason.