My sister eloped with her boyfriend ! A sad day for me !!
By Little_Boy
@Little_Boy (448)
India
September 17, 2008 7:10pm CST
Till today I even could not imagine that my younger sister is such a bloody liar!! I used to care for her more than any other brother does for his sister. She is a very meritorious student. My parents used to dream that she would become a doctor. She is just 19 years old. When she wanted money for any purpose, I used to give her my hard-earned money to buy her books, dress or anything. When she needed help of any kind, it was me whom she got at first. I did not eat anything without giving her share. My love for her knew no bounds. The entire dream of our family was centering her. Whoever saw her, he/she would comment that he/she has never seen such a nice girl. Last week one of our relatives told me that my sister, when she is supposed to be in college, actually is out with her boyfriend in a dating!! I did not believe his words. But he insisted and told me that there was no falsehood in what he has said. When my sister returned home, I asked her about what I have learnt about her dating. But she, with tears in her eyes, told me that my relative has told me lies! She also told she has no boyfriend, she does not love anybody. Again she told she would marry the guy whom I and my parents would choose. I said sorry for mis-understanding my loving sister. But yesterday, she eloped with her boyfriend and has gone to an unkown location!! She has just sent an SMS to my mobile phone that she has married and is happy with her "husband"!!! Selfish, selfish, selfish!! Liar, liar, liar !! what more can I call her?
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7976)
• Canada
18 Sep 08
I am really sorry to hear this as I can tell you are very hurt and upset and hopefully with time you will come to understand where she is coming from . She must care for this individual very much to have kept this from you and your parents and must have felt that you would not approve and when one is in love it is hard not to go with your feelings . True love is hard to find and when one has the opportunity to find it they have to do what is right for them . I realize that this was not what you and your family had planned and the way she went out and did this was even more hurtful but I would assume she did it this way because she knew you would disapprove and she just wanted to be happy . Not going to college will affect her life and it is sad that she lied about this but she has to learn from her own mistakes and all you can do is be there for her if she needs you . I realize your hurt will not let you see this now but hopefully one day you will be able to get past all this as it sounds like you were very close before and it would be a shame to lose a sister because of love . Love is such a wonderful thing and we all have the right to be happy . I realize she lied and that will be harder to forgive but if you can see it from her side , then it may be easier to forgive .
I really am sorry as I can tell you are upset and I don't want you to think in anyway that I am attacking you as I am really only trying to help you see something that your hurt is not allowing you to see right now . Take Care


